I've had three children (first baby was tragically stillborn at 6 months). Anyway my youngest is 4.5 months and my partner and myself recently dtd for the first time. I wasn't sure if it was because we used a condom or I was turned on but my vagina felt really loose. My oh finished so I thought it couldn't be that bad but it definitely felt a lot looser than before third baby. Do you think kegels would improve tightness? Maybe I'm still healing? Any advice?