Why do men like this

[Nchangedwoman]

Name changed for this!

I've recently had an experience with a great guy.. he was enjoying going down on me. Felt great until he starts getting his fingers involved...

Please don't get me wrong... it does feel great for us woman having the odd one or two but not when we have 3 or 4 fingers inside of us, what's the deal with this?!

Does it feel good for them? Some sort of turn on?

At one point I thought he was trying to get his whole arm inside me !!

Any experience with this? x

I’ll happily take the whole hand but then I’m definitely kinky and certain types of pain push my buttons. It’s definitely not comfortable and relaxed! However I have REALLY open communication with the man of the moment and we can enjoy things I wouldn’t do with a casual partner!

Another here thinking it’s likely what a previous lover enjoyed which is fair enough if you haven’t said otherwise. It’s difficult sometimes to have these discussions as tot seems too clinical- but I have found my husband very receptive to all ideas I give him or acts on feedback really well to my advantage. He found it strange that I really
Like my nipples to be pulled quite firmly and he was worried it hurt me but it’s bloody lovely. 😂