How many times??

[Asteve15]

Honestly how many times are you guys having sex?! DD is 2yrs old and me and DP have had sex 5 times since she was born, 2 of those being this year, is this normal, I'm starting to really wonder?

On average, I would say 2 to 3 times, occasionally 4 over a weekend or when I’m away. On work days, vary rarely.

We go through phases of doing it loads...like this weekend we did it 6 times but then it will slow down to once or twice a week.

I'm 41, husband is 37, kids are bit older, so not so demanding. Husband would have it several times a day if he had the choice, i'm not so fussed!

We have sex most days if we are together sometimes twice if we can
Kids are all grown up although my son still lives at home

We can go a few days if one of us is away but otherwise we have a very healthy sex life and always have since we met 20 years ago we are always have been a very touchy kissy and hold hands type of couple
When we first met for the first 5-7 years it was def 2/3 times a day 😂
My DH left his previous partner because their life was shit and he said he would rather be on his own than with someone who isn’t interested in Sex or him

0 or 14 (a week)! DH works abroad every second week. When he’s here it’s every morning and night like clockwork. We both have very high sex drives so morning is just a physical release for each of us and the night is the ‘making love’ one he’s away this week hence I’m on the sex board

I’m 42, divorced and have a new boyfriend. We see each other 2 or 3 times per week and we always end up in bed. Sometimes we manage 3 times per night.

In my marriage it was once every six months and I wasn’t interested in more. Now it is 2 - 6 times per week and I’d like more!

11 months into new relationship and don’t live together. Both got kids from previous r’ships. Both early-40s. We have sex every time we see eachother, usually more than once.
We were both in sex-less r’ships prior to this, so sex and physical closeness is v important to us both.

Just to add some balance to all the rampant responses. We have 3 kids, who are 4, 7 & 9. Since our first we have averaged about 4-5 times a year. Yet to put a score on the board for 2019.

@Ilovefluffysheep do you both have jobs?! How on earth do you fit that in?

I don't work, I was medically retired from my job around 18 months ago. My husband works nice regular hours and is home by 4.30pm.

Good to see so many happy people and positive responses.

Twenty years in a tedious , dull, missionary position on a Tuesday relationship and now I am having the best sex of my life with an amazing new partner.

Enthusiastic morning sex puts a spring in your step for the rest of the day and sex at night helps with a good, contented sleep.

If we can fit more in then we do, and life is better in every way as a result.

No hang ups, no squeamishness, no “go and have a shower” or “brush your teeth” just two people deeply in love and enjoying each other’s bodies.

It’s truly a life changer, and recommended for everyone.

Amazing how different everyone is. I'm 32, we've been together for 14 years (married for 5) and have a 3yo and 7mo. We have sex / stuff, 1-2 times a week, although my hubby would every minute of the day! X

What's wrong been size 14? I'm a Male and my partner was probably 12-14 when we met. 3 kids later (& 14yrs) she now 16-18 and still as sexy as ever, I've told her she's like a fine wine..matures with age. Yummy mummy. If he finds you unattractive because of your size then he has issues and you need to ship him out.