BJ - swallowing tips

[Moomagoo]

I’m a fan of giving blowjobs but I am not a fan of him finishing in my mouth as it makes me gag. Thing is, I’ve got a gorgeous new guy who is so good in bed and I’d love to give him the works! Is there anything I can do to make it easier for me?

@StarlightLady I don't think that the texture is like greek yoghurt.

Greek yoghurt is creamy.

Cum is a bodily fluid and it has the same texture as spit or snot.

I just think that too many women push themselves into doing things that they don't want to.

You are just as important as your man. His preferences don't take precedence kver yours. And if you do not want to swallow, don't. If you do something that you do not want to do - it will hurt you later.

For example - I had one man push me into doing something that I didnt want to - 10 years ago.

And it has ruined my enjoyment of sex ever since.

If I don't want to do something, I say no to men now.

Numerous men don't take a no well. I remember one man saying "but you are saying no to ME", like I was the woman and he was the man, and how could I say no to him.

But I still won't be pushed by anyone. My mental health is worth more to me, then men guilt tripping me into doing something.

Sex is meant to be mutually pleasurable

Op - if you do not like a man finishing in your mouth

Dont do it!

@angell84 - As a feminist, I have never suggested either on here or in my every day life that any woman should do what she is not happy doing. Neither have I suggested that any man is more important than a woman he is with.

The fact I am comfortable swallowing is a different matter.

If I may digress slightly, l was criticised elsewhere on MN because I said I would not have sex with someone who would not go down on me. For some reason l was unreasonable in setting my own ground rules for sharing my own body.

I think that the experience of swallowing semen is probably quite individual and therefore if someone says that for them it has the feel of Greek yoghurt, then who am I to argue with that?

I think that it is more helpful to concentrate on the actual techniques, such as taking the glans to the very back of the mouth when ejaculation happens.

Say you love it all over your breasts (because that is indeed nice) and direct it there as it explodes!

I don't think you should put yourself under pressure with this. Yes sometimes in sex we have to step up and for a few seconds or so have some slight physical discomfort (such as an aching jaw or knees that need a cushion under them), but really you shouldn't feel you must deliver something that is too unpleasant for you.

Having said that, if you really love him and are physically matched, this may well affect your physical reaction to his essence (in the same way that you love his smell). So you might get used to this and like it, specifically with him.

If it was me, I would straight up want to be somehow involving him in the discussion. But that's because my partner leaves the path open for nothing held back. He wants to know my whole experience and he thinks it through practically to make sure everything is a pleasure. There's no hiding - he insists on communication. But that kind of nakedness in front of the other takes an exceptional understanding and trust. You're just at the start here - but maybe think about starting as you mean to go on - no secrets, nothing lonely for you to deal with on your own?

Try licks from Ann summers it makes blow jobs so much more fun and nice tasting if your not a fan of the salty taste lol or just shove it to the back of your throat wen he's gunna cum and it'll go straight down