Does this count as sex?

[siring1]

I really love but an not too keen on sex. We don't have PIV but I will give him a hand job if he wears a condom. We share wonderful intimacy and I happily indulge him in a few kinks he has.

I worry that I'm not doing enough though. He doesn't complain. Do I do enough to count ax 'having sex'.

Doesn't matter what you call it. In a loving relationship if that's what you both want then it's ok. I have lovers who prefer just mutual masturbation and it suits us and so it is accepted.