why cant I orgasm doing doggy style?

[Mumoftwox]

so my partner loves doggy style but I have never been able to orgasm I'm this position and dont find it enjoyable at all. I can orgasm from any position which is front facing and oral any advice?

Well I am a man so no expert....but I am pretty sure a woman is most sensitive around her clit and as doggy does not really allow the man's penis to rub or stimulate your clit you are probably not going to orgasm. Try asking him to reach around and use a finger on the appropriate area at the same time....Or of course you can stimulate yourself.....Or use a small vibrator on your self while he is inside! A finger works for my oh and speaking as a man it is both visually very stimulating from behind and lovely if my partner does orgasm...she does not every time though....as with all things....practice makes perfect

I'm surprised you have to ask this...because most women can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and doggy doesn't stimulate you there. Simps!

yeah I understand why I cant orgasm, l
although I dont seem to get any pleasure from it whatsoever so I'm confused as to why so many women like doggy?

Afraid I rather suspect many ladies don't! It is visually great for a man but rather impersonal. For me and oh it is something we do sometimes but not every time. Face to face is much more intimate and romantic...and she gets to rub herself against me iykwim when On top which she loves....and so do i!!

I think that being unable to orgasm and finding it enjoyable are two different things.
I don't personally mind having sex in a position that I can't orgasm, but I can still find it enjoyable. If it doesn't feel comfortable then I wouldn't do it. Doggy feels nice to me since he can go quite deep and there is a good rhythm.

I don't orgasm in that position since it's not stimulating my clit. If I play with myself at the same time, then I can.

If a partner enjoys this position then rather than try to reach around and massagev her clit (a bit of a stretch!), i slip my hand between her legs from behind and massage her erect clit with my index finger,,of course some women find this position uncomfortable due to depth of penetration/lack of emotional/face to face contact etc..

As to why some women like doggy - for me, I prefer it because it feels a bit naughty and I don't have to be distracted by the man's gurning orgasm face! And as I can't orgasm from PIV in any position so there is no disadvantage compared to other positions.

We are each responsible for ourcown orgasms. That doesn't mean we shouldn’t enjoy sex, far from it.

And remember the cltoris is the primary sex organ.

We don’t do this position often, but I like it because I DON’T orgasm from it. It takes very little stimulation for me to climax (not always helpful!) so we can have sex for longer in this position. If we are doing other things and I feel like I can’t last (distract myself) much longer, we can switch to doggy to give myself time to calm down. It’s still nice, but the stimulation is not in the right place. It does feel very sexy too.

Doggy is my go to position when I want to orgasm, it never fails!

I usually orgasm in this position. A twist on it is to bring your legs close together and arch your back while he moves fast and hard from behind. It's shallower penetration but stimulates the clit.

@Mumoftwox I find it really enjoyable so I must be different 😂

Everyone's different. All my fantasies are about power shifts and penetration from behind sparks something in me about being less in control, and I love it. I don't come from PIV so it makes no difference to me in that sense.

I've been with partners who were too small for doggy to work and that's fine, plenty of alternatives, but I did miss it.

Ditto ...only you are responsible for your orgasm . I just touch myself if he's behind me and dp finds that a huge turn on by itself so we're both happy .
If you lie down with him behind you ( so spooning ) it's far easier if either of you would prefer it to be him who stimulates you there .

Aren’t humans the only species that have sex in any position other than so-called doggy style?

I’ve had two partners for whom it was by far their favourite position and best for orgasm without any additional manual stimulation. Guess it just works for some people (physically and mentally) but not others.

Get a massager for your clit. Job done!