Husband wanting to dominate in bed

[lou132]

Been married for 15 years. Hubby wants to spice things up & add toys into the equation. He wants me to dress up & then have sex or wants me to wear certain knickers or bra when out. He suggested I wear a vibrating egg today where he has control of the setting with a remote. I've just been upstairs & the bed has restraints attached to it. Don't get me wrong, he is turning me on but I feel out of my depth. Any ideas or advice as this is all new to me.

You need to explore a little of the world of BDSM, particularly the use of safe words. You need to feel safe when moving into new areas and must have trust in your husband.

If you want to give it a try, then I suggest that you try the following interactive questionnaire. It allows you to know where the things you each want, or may be prepared to experiment with, may overlap.

old.mojoupgrade.com/

Thank you for the questionnaire xpc316e. That's great. At least it gives us boundaries & expectations of each other.

You only have to ask your husband about all these new things,, has he been reading the crap 50 shades of grey book ha ha. But just try some new things anyway,as you say it is turning you on now.