If I frequently think about women

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more than men when I fantasise am I bi?

Straight? Lesbian? Bi? Why do you need a label at all?

Why nor just see yourself as “sexual”. It doesn’t need a prefix.

Lose the labels, as they aren't helpful. If you decide on a label and use it then I might hear you use that label and have it mean something slightly different to me.

I listened to a podcast this morning in which a guy asked 'Am I bisexual?' - he went on to explain that he is married but turned on by the idea of cocks and men's arses. He has had oral sex once with a man, and liked it. He stated that while he found men sexually attractive, he couldn't fall in love with one. The adviser told him exactly what StarlightLady told you.

Thank you. That’s kind. It is a viewpoint that has resulted in criticism of me in the past.

Of course, this may all lead to more important related matters for the OP to consider but the label isn’t one of them.

I fantasize about women, I have zero romantic feelings towards them and it's not something I'd carry out in real life. It's just fantasy, I don't class myself as bi as I've never seen a woman I've fancied in my entire life. Like others say though it doesn't need a label :)