Sex after having two children

[LastDitchAttempt2017]

Hi
I have had two children 2 and 4 and have broken up with my partner. I have started seeing someone new and so have started having sex again! Last time I had sex with my partner was when I conceived my son and nothing since! So I didn't realise that things have changed and that my vagina has stretched! So sleeping with my new man the other night was completely different!! It's not really that his penis is much smaller- it's about the same - ish! I do believe it is me. I pushed two babies out of there! I know it's huge- he does as well! I don't think it works for him at all!!!!
I am doing my pelvic floor- have been for an eternity, I don't think it's enough.

I am after advice:
What can I do to make it a bit better and tighter for him?
What positions work the best?
Is there a procedure I could have? How much? Where?

I'm not having more children.

Anything at all please!!!
Thank you!

How do you know you’re ‘huge’🙄
Has he said this?

Better and tighter for HIM??? This is about you. It is not something you are giving him. You can try “gripping” with a reasonable size vibey as well as your straightforward pelvic floor exercises. But personally, I suspect you are nowhere near as large as you think you are.

Try kegel balls for your pelvic floor, just make sure you get ones with a cord. This is about you, all you.

I know I am huge! He hasn't said anything, but I can feel it!!
Not like it used to be anyway. I mean it still works!
How was I to know?! I haven't had sex in so long!!!

I just feel a bit self conscious about it. He hasn't been able to come at all. Maybe that says more about my ability though!! But with my ex it worked in a reasonable time and e both felt happy!

With the new man- it's just me that feels happy, I just don't want him to dump me just yet to find someone with a tighter vagina!!! I really like him!!!!! 😩

He hasn't been able to come at all.

Does he watch a lot of porn? It commonly results in this. Google death grip porn.