So I've always thought I was straight as a ruler, not interested in women at all etc etc. But the past year or so I've been... curious. DH and I are swingers and we often go to a sex club, sometimes alone, sometimes together. I went alone earlier this year and I met a couple who I really clicked with, we had a great laugh and I felt really comfortable with them. We just chatted that evening and nothing happened, and I never saw them again until last weekend when I went alone again. I saw them, we chatted for a while and things were just as comfortable as before. Long story short, I ended up having sex with the husband and the wife watched. She is bisexual but I declined to 'play' with her too because I know my husband would be upset if he missed my first time with a woman (it's something he's always wanted to be a part of).
Anyway, my husband and I are going together this Friday and this couple will be there too. If things go as comfortably as before and we take things further, I will likely end up having sex with the woman too. But the problem is, I don't know how to do it with a woman
What do I do? And how?? The couple are really nice and they know I've never done it before so I daresay she would guide me but I don't want to go in completely clueless. I mean, I know how I like it, but what if she doesn't like stuff the way I do? Aargh this feels like such a minefield
please can someone advise me? My husband's a bit useless, he just says do stuff the way I like it doing...
That was a bit longer than I meant it to be
I just wanted to give some backstory and hopefully not come across as troll-y. I've been here since 2011 so HQ can clarify if you do feel the need to report me though.