Sex with a female while DH watches

[Bitingdemon]

I’ve always liked the idea of having sex with a girl even though I’m straight and married to a man. I thought about floating the idea of a threesome to DH, but I’m not sure I’d be 100% ok with him having sex with another woman (even though I’d be there too), so it’d be strictly me and her while he watches (which I think he would like anyway).

I’m just not sure where to go from here. How do I find a woman to do this with? I read on another thread about finding an indie sex worker but I’m not sure how to do that. Any pointers would be appreciated.

Try a site like fabswingers, sift out the dross and there are very genuine people there.
Good luck...

I suppose you have to look on a swinging site. But I understand single women like this are known as unicorns, aka they are extemely rare!
You may well find your husand is a less keen bystander than you might think but you know him best.

My DW seems to have a similar desire like yours and I offered her the opportunity to do this (anything to try and kick start our sex life...). She declined. If she had said yes then I guess I’d have been looking for a decent and safe indie sex worker (on the adultwork site). Trouble is I imagine it would be wise to meet in a social environment first as things wouldn’t happen if DW didn’t like her. On that basis fabswingers probably offers you the chance to get to know each other a little first.
I certainly wouldn’t go down the friend or friend of a friend route.

To find an indie sex worker, use Adultwork. You don't need to have an account to search.

There are loads of search parameters, but your main basics are to look for someone who is genuinely bisexual, and states on her "likes" list that she sees couples.

This is a sweeping generalisation, but girls from Eastern European countries are often being "managed" (i.e. pimped) and it's hard to tell if they are before you book them.

YOU need to make the initial contact. Every sex worker I know who advertises as couples-friendly gets dozens of texts/calls per month from men who ask to book as a couple and in fact are just having a free wank with no intention of booking.

Make sure you speak on the phone before a booking takes place, have a good chat, talk about what you would want. Be upfront that you haven't done this before. If you don't feel like you're clicking, then just say you'll get back to them with a definite date and time. Find someone who's on your wavelength because it's a lot of money to spend if it turns out you don't fancy her.