Sending nudes to strangers on Instagram

[RuthWilder]

I am 31 & in a very long term relationship.

A few nights ago I sent some suggestive pics to a dude on Instagram who I’ve followed for a few years. We’ve commented on each others stuff before but nothing flirty. I am not sure how it happened. I was sober, & savvy enough to not include my face in the pics. He reciprocated with his own nudes & was appreciative of what I sent.

I cannot stop thinking about him. It’s like a crush. I want to message him again. I really have no idea why I’m doing this - I love my DP & we have a great sex life. Sending these pics & receiving appreciation for them was awesome.

I would be gutted if my DP was messaging other women.

You'd probably be better off posting this in Relationships TBH.

It's always nice to be appreciated and although it's wrong, that adds to the frisson. I know from my own experience in similar circumstances

I imagine its new, exciting, taboo and a little crazy.

Why not message dp instead, or do you so that already?

Please be careful that your husband does not find your secret, I can see how it gets your heart racing, to have another man drooling over your images.