Went to Centre Parks for the first time today

[WaverleyOwl]

Okay, sorry for the somewhat obscure reference, but ahem, I think we know what we are talking about (bumsex, sorrynotsorry).

DH an I had some time to ourselves today without threat of interruption. This is very unusual. It's been something I knew he wanted, but was hesitant due to longstanding bum issues (thank you DC1 for the piles).

Anyway, in thought, what the hell, it's something I wanted to try. I can stop it if it gets sore. But holy crap, I have not felt this connected to my DH in years. I don't know if it is because its a bit naughty but we can't stop grinning at each other. I thought it was something I might tolerate at best, but omg. 3 orgasms and I could have kept going.

I can't share with my friends, so sorry, you've drawn the short straw. Please don't judge.

bored me and DH haven't ever used protection. He was my first, and he was clean, so even initially, I was on the pill and used to the mess. I came off the pill 12 years ago to try to ttc and haven't ever used protection since. We suck at getting pregnant, so 12 years and nothing. Him coming in my ass was just a natural progression. Can't say I noticed a big mess!

Boredboredboredboredbored I hate to stuck on the details but...

" I go on all fours and open my legs as wide as possible and then he goes from behind. " ??

If you are on all fours then why would you make your legs wide? You are already in the right position with your legs together.

@claraandbertha I'd assume for easier entry? Legs spread wide would 'open things up' more?

BoobleMcB Not if you are on all fours and he is entering you from behind. I fear this will end with a diagram :)

I agree @boredboredboredboredbored we need a diagram

No diagrams. I fear if I ever saw myself like that I'd never have sex again!!! We find it easier with me lower for some reason and i feel it very deeply he sought of goes in more at an angle.

No we are not in some sort of porn circus act either

Tried it the other night with me on my back and him entering me with my legs up but it just didn't feel half as erotic for us as the above....!

Yes I am really really confused, I think an annotated diagram is required

The guy I'm seeing doesn't usually bother with full on anal sex, because I'm rather small down there. There's not much difference in tightness and so the main difference for him is how it feels inside and he prefers how it feels inside a vaginas. He uses his fingers and tongue plenty, which is my favourite thing atm especially while he is fucking me already.

If he can use his tongue whilst he’s fucking you - that’s a diagram I need to see!

Omg, is this turning into a parking thread where we all need carefully annotated diagrams? Now that would be interesting 😊

If he can use his tongue whilst he’s fucking you - that’s a diagram I need to see!

I think he is an ant eater.

Hahaha I just read it back and saw how it read. I meant fingers while fucking obviously and tongue other times.

I promise no ant eaters we're harmed or violated

Positions and entry angle (ie spread wide or not) will be dictated largely by your relative heights. From behind is likely to be the easiest for most couples despite any height mis-match. If he's 5ft 7 or under then him standing at the edge of the bed and you just slightly hanging off it on your back will work well.

The thing I love about anal sex is the ability to use a vibrator on my clitoris at the same time, so don't hold back ;)

The thing I love about anal sex is the ability to use a vibrator on my clitoris at the same time, so don't hold back ;)

Yup!!!

There is a sex toy that you can buy that is like a cock ring with a dildo attached (if that makes sense). You can achieve double penetration (anal and vaginal) with it. Recommend it.