Penis Size - a new take?

[fluffyalive]

I know this is a well discussed topic but I have a different take on a this issue. I wondered if any other women feel like I do and that there is, in fact, an emperor’s new Clothes thing going on with men with larger penises?

I know many say ‘it is not the size of the boat….’ or ‘it is the man the penis is attached to..’ etc, but I have found these comments are often aimed at reassuring men that are smaller downstairs. My point, however, is that I actually prefer a smaller man.

I had a long-term relationship with a man who was pretty well-endowed. I convinced myself I was lucky, as this is supposed to be the ideal. He was a nice guy, but we eventually split up for non-sexual reasons. Since then I have had a short-term relationship with a much smaller man. I much preferred the sex with this man. It was not only more comfortable; it was in fact amazing.

Since then I have actively looked for men with smaller penises and have even been on specialist dating websites such as www.dinkyone.com and www.miniwilly.co.uk (laughable name I know!) . Obviously I know that it is the man that is more important than the penis, but a good sex life is important to me and I want to at least make sure that he is right for me in that department.

Does anyone else feel the way I do?

Who would have known such websites existed?!! It’s put me right off my cocktail sausage

LOL! I am Pescetarianism

Some womens cervix are not the end of the journey, theres a pocket of space beyond it for some.

I have experienced this,when im really turned on,it just seems to open and dp can go further..

Hes about 8 1/2 inches.And we seem to be a good fit.

But theres no way i could have a smaller man,it just wouldnt do it for me.

I've had all sorts of shapes & sizes

Best sex IME has been with average-sized or smaller than average-sized cocks. I'm talking length here. Girth is more important than length, I think.

STBXH has a very big but weirdly lopsided cock that is bloody uncomfortable in certain positions. He thinks it's a thing of beauty - it really isn't

Thinking back to my dim and distant past very average but creative/considerate was the most enjoyable. Extra large could be very powerful and satisfying but the lack of personality attached to it eventually became boring and sad.

never knew sites like that existed is there one for big willies too lol.

Lpsg.com and no, I'm not on it**

@dottypotter - there is a site called 7orbetter. I am not a member though!

The best sex I've had was with someone a bit smaller than average that I was in love with. Just not interested in huge. Having said that, some positions don't work with smaller ones, or at least not with me.

I once went out with a guy who was huge both length and girth. It was excruciatingly painful and we could never dtd spontaneously as it took ages to get to a stage where he could enter. Worst sex ever. Been with someone about a third of his size and it's a pleasure

The bigger the better for me......

springmachine

You are married to Derek Smalls and I claim my £5.

@Blokenamechangesexboard

Haha! I had to google who that was. It's a little bit before my time. (by about 30 years)

The bigger the better for me......

Have you considered fisting?

ouch! the thought of fisting terrifies me!

Cannot imagine anything worse!

Amusing thread. It seems like there is a bit of a backlash to the perceived view that bigger is better.

There was recently a Metro article that mentioned the miniwilly website:

metro.co.uk/2018/06/12/what-should-you-do-if-your-partner-has-a-small-penis-7594886/

@qawsderf - thanks for the post.

It is an interesting article. I like the way it rubbished the cliche of smaller blokes being good with their tongues!

Thickness is more important than length to me

I personally don't like them either too thick or too long. Most important is the confidence and passion of the man at the end of it!

Nice thread resurrection. Good to know what's been on your mind today

That's what's painful though, in my experience, getting your cervix bashed isn't fun

I like it but my boyfriend has a good sense for when and how I want it. I've been with men who just bash against it. He reaches mine nicely and the stimulation there is awesome whether he's rough or quite gentle and slow.

I do agree with that article about any couple will have trouble with some positions.

I am ridiculously flexible and I'm fairly fit and my boyfriend is twice my weight mostly in muscle and can pick me up like a doll. He is slightly above average size downstairs and there are a few positions we just can't get into and it actually seems that it's me. He said mine is just set a bit further back than other women he's been with whereas ive pretty much always struggled with them. Seems to make other positions easier than other women though so it's definitely swings and roundabouts.

After years of being with men of (I now
Realise) huge endowment, I am with a man who is small, and suddenly I’m having multiple orgasms, after not being able to through PIV at all! No word of a lie. It’s like the top of his penis is pressing all my buttons. It’s magical. I feel like I wasted years of my best sexual years with enormous bores. I agree OP!