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Has anyone ever seen a live sex show. I don’t mean on live cam but actually in the same room?

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likmykwim · 02/01/2018 15:37

I’m partial to a bit of porn & self-help when DH is away so the thought of seeing it live is getting to me. There is a couple advertising on an adult web site offering a voyeur service. Prices vary as to time booked. No touching allowed but, in their words, getting naked and wanking is fine. This is obviously aimed at men but reviewers have included a couple of females so it is not unknown. I haven’t made contact. My question is should I? Would I feel guilty? Have any of you done this? Would you do it again? Oh and no I wouldn’t get naked but might masturbate up my skirt.

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maccax · 02/01/2018 16:43

tbh,
You could do the same for free in the swing scene, and maybe make new friends as well.

Wherearemymarbles · 02/01/2018 19:57

Would you tell dh?
How would you feel if he did the same?

I am sure you can find some sites where you can watch couples on cam.

CheekyChaCha · 02/01/2018 22:31

Don’t do it on your own! If you and DH want to go to see sex together that’s fine but on your own would be insane (in my humble opinion).

Brightredpencil · 02/01/2018 22:36

I've never done it and would be way too scared that I was being covertly filmed to even consider it. Horses for courses though... it sounds like the swingers club option would be safer.

Joey7t8 · 04/01/2018 13:02

On the basis that this couple are probably doing this for the exibitionist fun as much as the extra £, the whole scenario sounds incredibly hot.

Have you considered watching them via Skype? That may be a safer way to do it if you were a bit unsure.

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likmykwim · 04/01/2018 17:47

maccax - I'm looking for anonymity. Don't know enough about the swing scene but would think this would take an age to get into with the right couple. Not looking for sex friends.

Wherearemymarbles - Couldn't, wouldn't tell him. There's the guilt trip right there.

Brightredpencil - It just makes me so excited thinking of it that there will be no rational thought if I do it.

Joey7t8 - Their advert reads sooo hot but there is no skype option.
Re-read it last night to be sure.

Thanks all for your comments, but is there anyone who has watched such a show perhaps in Amsterdam?

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maccax · 04/01/2018 23:19

OP,
To answer your original question, yes.
I didn't pay (!) and the only physical contact from me was stroking her back while she was on top of her partner.....because she asked me too.

That was many years ago.

MyOtherNameIsBetter · 05/01/2018 01:26

Yes, I've seen a live sex show in Amsterdam. To be frank it was not erotic. Nowhere near. After you got over the initial 'omg they are having sex' it was just rather rehearsed and dull and they both looked bored and the guy didn't even look that hard. Not a turn on at all. Sorry

JustSaying71 · 05/01/2018 11:19

Concur with MyOtherNameIsBetter. Looking around at the audience that night in Amsterdam was generally more interesting than what was taking place on stage. Generally young, good looking, multinational, as many women as men, far from the ageing male sleazies that one might imagine. The Aussie swimming team, obviously taking a break from a championship in Holland, were queuing up to go in as we were leaving, if that's an indication. The performers seemed to be concentrated hard on getting through the routines as I remember. And 'concentrated hard' is apposite for the men: initially seemingly on not coming and then on maintaining erections as the night wore on. Watching other people who are really into it and each other have sex might be exciting up close in different circumstances.

JustSaying71 · 05/01/2018 12:20

Having said that, thinking about it for the first time in years, if you're a trysexual - as in try anything - I don't regret going to a live sex show. It wasn't bad. Just not something I'd necessarily want to repeat. But if you're in the red light district of Old Amsterdam, stolling by a canal one night, a little high..

HungerOfThePine · 05/01/2018 18:38

Went to one with a friend in Amsterdam at case rosa but pretty sure (assuming) wanking wasn't allowed. Basically a sequence of people performing sex on stage along with some gimmick acts and audience participation. I didn't know what to expect as my friend didn't tell me what happened there when she recommended it.
First my jaw hit the floor but was funny to me rather than sexually arousing, was predominantly men and couple's

I think it's different in some way to what you describe though.
I think it is basically cheating on your dh.

NormaNameChange · 05/01/2018 20:35

likmykwim - your user name made me chuckle Grin

Ive watched my very own live sex show (watching my partner with another woman) not sure it would have the same effect over skype.

You can attend a swingers club, not participate and watch plenty of people have sex - theres usually a safe place for exhibitionists/voyeurs. Most people are very respectful so even if you're approached a simple "no thanks" will usually ensure youre left in peace but many places have a coloured band system where you can 'advertise' you arent there to join in.

Wherearemymarbles · 05/01/2018 22:46

Thing is op, which you didnt reply to, is how would you feel if dh did the same, or paid for a cam girl?

I am sure this would be hot. But even if you put your hands down the front of your dress and they see nothing they will know when you orgasm, you will be watching them orgasm. they might get off on it. You are bound together on a way.

So really its a form of cheating. Why not go together? Maybe they watch you guys having sex?

Foggymist · 05/01/2018 23:54

Yeah we watched one in Amsterdam, it was the least sexy thing I've ever seen! Various couples (real life couples), one woman in one of the couples was crying?! Some old guy in the front row got invited to join a middle aged couple across the aisle, the female of the couple gave her partner a blow job while the old guy fondled her and touched himself, even the couple on stage on the revolving bed were watching them. I've seen hotter scenes in Corrie Grin

Pfftkids · 07/01/2018 10:37

Been to live sex shows in Amsterdam they were awful, the couples having sex looked bored.

I've also been the vouyer watching normal couples having sex and been part of a couple having people watch me through the swinging scene. If you want to know more about how to go about it send me a pm and I can help you out

maccax · 07/01/2018 12:28

(gate crashing; sorry)
How do we pm on Mumsnet?

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likmykwim · 07/01/2018 14:00

maccax - In the line with you name in above your post there is a message poster button.
Just click on it and message away

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maccax · 07/01/2018 14:35

(Thnx. not getting it on iPhone iOS, will try on website. Thnx)

MoG3 · 07/01/2018 14:56

Amsterdam - yes
Erotic - no

Killing Kittens party - London.
Erotic - oh yes!

Guiltypleasures001 · 08/01/2018 00:04

Torture gardens sex room nods sagely

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likmykwim · 19/01/2018 19:10

OK time for an update. DH was away. Made a booking (Full of fear). Went along, trust me I had several escapes planned. No need. Stunningly atractive couple. They did it more for them than me. No feeling of guilt (well not much!). No touching whatsoever. Yes I masturbated but not naked. Webcams didn't do it for me. Has given me so much to think of on lonely nights. Please don't berate me it's done now. That is crossed off my list now and I won't be doing it again. Can't wait till DH gets back.

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Brightredpencil · 19/01/2018 20:13

I mean, I'm not a hairy handed troll, but, I'd like details!! Not necessarily about the event.. But everything else?! Did they vet you before you went?! How much was it? Did they answer the door in dressing gowns? Was there conversation/nibbles?!

Brightredpencil · 19/01/2018 20:13

I mean, I'm not a hairy handed troll, but, I'd like details!! Not necessarily about the event.. But everything else?! Did they vet you before you went?! How much was it? Did they answer the door in dressing gowns? Was there conversation/nibbles?!

Brightredpencil · 19/01/2018 20:13

I mean, I'm not a hairy handed troll, but, I'd like details!! Not necessarily about the event.. But everything else?! Did they vet you before you went?! How much was it? Did they answer the door in dressing gowns? Was there conversation/nibbles?!

Brightredpencil · 19/01/2018 20:39

See... def not a troll!!

Sorry about multiple posts!!

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