Dont MN and drink Wine when DH asleep!

[Firstworlddramas]

Sat on the sofa - a mixture of tired and tipsy - mind drifted off - I'm usually very reserved in the bedroom although that's partly because DH has let himself go a bit too much - I can't help have a (very secret) fantasy that we try anal sex! - don't think I'd ever go through with it though and so could never mention this to DH or he would never let it go!

so fellow MN, thanks for letting me share, this wine is good but perhaps I should make this my last glass and then turn in for the night!

At the risk of regretting sharing

Why not ask him to touch and fondle this area while you are having sex? If you both like it, go from there and try finger Penetration with plenty of lube. Nothing is a no no, we are modern and liberated women in the bedroom!

If you decide you don't like it say stop, talk to him and work out your limits.

maybe one day razorboy, maybe - just don't tell him I said that! hahaha

Just go for it OP, why are your fantasies a secret from your partner? Start living them

He’d soon wake up if you wanted to chat about it to him

OP - what do your have to lose?
It’s not that kinky a fantasy anyway!!!

If you are not comfortable sharing - get a finger-sized vibrator and try it on your own before mentioning it to H...

Just make sure the finger sized vibrator is an anal toy- you don't want anything getting lost!

Or just touch yourself there while doing the deed and tell other half that you're trying something new??