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Why am I so horny?

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LegoShmego · 20/09/2017 16:57

I have a gorgeous dh and we have a great sex life.
He works away, and during the time he's away I get really horny! I want him! But I can't have him, but sometimes when I pass a good looking guy I think wow I'd fuck him!!

I never used to think this! I seem to have become hornier than I've ever been Confused

For the record I have no intention of straying!

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haribomilkshake · 20/09/2017 17:40

Is it your age? Women supposedly reach their peak later in life (40ish) and I didn't really buy that until about a year ago. Google "sex surge". Good luck with that Wink

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LegoShmego · 20/09/2017 17:58

Ooh, I'll have a look! Thanks.
I'm 35.

I was starting to wonder whether it was due to curiosity. I've only ever been with dh (since I was 19).

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abbsisspartacus · 20/09/2017 18:00

Your ovulating most likely your body is telling you to mate and have babies 😁

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LegoShmego · 20/09/2017 18:25

Come to think of it abbsiss you might be right!

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Mammysin · 20/09/2017 19:49

I'm 42: it is definitely true re sex surge. 😊😁

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LegoShmego · 20/09/2017 19:54

I'm pleased about that Grin

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gamerchick · 20/09/2017 19:55

Yep 42 here as well to the point of utter misery. Personally I think the body senses it's on the downward slope fertility wise so pulls out all the stops for babies.

Ovulation is a particularly tricky time.

A womanizer is handy if you're into toys.

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badbadhusky · 20/09/2017 19:56

I'm in my 40s. The sex surge thing is real. Wink DH is used to me getting the raging horn around ovulation.

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LegoShmego · 20/09/2017 22:43

Thanks gamer.... I have a Lelo Gigi. A present from DH Grin

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burninghigh · 21/09/2017 01:31

When did this sex surge thing start?!

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gamerchick · 21/09/2017 09:36

About a year ish ago for me. Definitely something about the 40s.

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Brahms3rdracket · 21/09/2017 13:35

I'm 43 and definitely have the sex surge. It's bloody brilliant, my dp and i are at it every day and are like honeymooners again. I hope it never goes away.

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LegoShmego · 21/09/2017 14:59

Yeah brahms it is bloody brilliant! Just a shame my dh isn't here atm to enjoy it with me!
I've just told him over email how horny I'm feeling and he's bought me a new suprise toy online!.... Excited!

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Justaboy · 21/09/2017 18:17

It's very well explained in Michelle Langley's book Women's Infidelity she reasons that women as just as bad as men in wanting to screw around and in some ways can be worse than men, but the main point is the sex surge around the mid 30's

If you google that title plus PDF there are some sites you can download it from it is very interesting reading. Worth buying even!.

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LegoShmego · 21/09/2017 21:00

Thanks justaboy I'll take a look tomorrw

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doreen007 · 26/09/2017 20:11

If your feeling so horny, why not relieve yourself? Nothing wrong with watching some porn, getting turned on and bringing yourself to orgasm. Most men do it all the time.Once walked unexpectedly on a BF to find him with his pants down, porn vid on, and cock in hand. Too late to take advantage of it, as he was on the point of cuming!
What's good for goose, is good for the gander.........

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