Sex with a long foreskin

[DaisyLuke]

Current DP has a long foreskin which covers his penis and has that flappy look even when he is erect. I've not experienced this before as previous partners either automatically rolled back when erect or were circumcised. I'm not sure if it makes any difference but he seems to need to be gingerly careful when penetrating me and can't really thrust very hard presumably as it would hurt him. I quite like to be taken roughly and quickly from time to time, just wondered if anyone else had had this issue?

I've heard of this, does a condom help? Or maybe it would help for him to practice exposing its head gently with some kind of lubricant.

can't really thrust very hard presumably as it would hurt him.

Has he actually said this?

I've had a huge variety of blokes from circumcised to enormous flappy foreskin (and not forgetting guys with phimosis), but a foreskin which is so large as so cause pain during sex should be discussed with a GP.

In the interim, ask him to show you how he wanks himself off currently, and adopt the same techniques. PIV will probably have to stay with a carefully-placed condom for now.

I asked him to go quicker once when we were doing it doggie style. He said he was going as quick as he could. When he tugs himself to get hard enough to penetrate he sometimes pulls his foreskin back but always replaces it. I think he is worried about the foreskin snapping as he intimated this may have happened before in a previous relationship

You seem to be doing a lot of guessing here and not much asking.
Try asking him - there could be various reasons why he couldn't go any faster.

A long foreskin wouldn't necessarily mean it's tight or painful to retract.

Best ask him directly.

A large foreskin can cause hygiene problems but shouldn't cause any issues or pain with vigorous thrusting.

I suppose I fall into this category - although I retract fully when erect.
For me, the only possible slight discomfort is the very first retraction (which I tend to look after myself) as there can be a bit of friction.

After that - full speed ahead..

I realise this thread is a bit old but I wanted to say that this sounds remarkably like an ex of mine. i very kindly and gently explained to him that most others were not like that. It turned out that the foreskin was attached too high for lack of a better explanation, meaning that fully retracting it was possible but very difficult and sometimes painful. He went to the gp then finally had a very simple operation to release it. The relationship didn't last long enough to test out the new gear but years on I still get occasional texts from him thanking me for pointing it out to him!