Is it OK to desire a big penis?

[SensualSue]

I have experienced various sizes from button mushroom to two coke cans on top of each other. I like big, thick penises and am afraid I just don't get the same pleasure from tinies. I know it's not their fault, and I'd never tell a man with a small penis, but for me, size definitely matters. I sometimes think it is judgemental and unfair of me, but isn't everyone allowed a preference?

Absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a man with a larger penis. It may limit your options somewhat depending on how big you're after. However if sex in a relationship is very important to you, you're better off being choosy.

I had casual sex with a man with a very small penis and it put me off a full relationship. We had a lot of foreplay, which was great, but I felt a lot of frustration at the penetration. I didn't want to carry on getting attached knowing ultimately the sex wasn't for me.

So, no, there's nothing wrong with wanting to feel fulfilled sexually, and if that involves a large penis that's fine. Personal preference and all that.

You like what you like and nothing wrong with that.

At least you have the advantage of knowing up front what you are getting. Unlike a man who wont know until he tries if its like shoving his knob up a host pipe or waving a flag in space.

I have no idea but ha ha I do love wheres* response, so blunt!

Your preference is your preference.

At least you have the advantage of knowing up front what you are getting. Unlike a man who wont know until he tries if its like shoving his knob up a host pipe or waving a flag in space very true, there's nothing worse than going with a woman and finding she is like the channel tunnel.

You can have whatever preference you want.
A big penis is not better but if it matters to you then that's your choice.

You might have to "kiss" a few frogs first. Much easier to filter them if you only fancy men with blue eyes.

Nothing worse, Caveman, really?

Well SpongeBobJudgeyPants I have experienced various sizes from hose pipe snug, to road tunnels. I like them snug, and I am afraid I just don't get the same pleasure from tunnels. I know it's not their fault, and I'd never tell a woman with a large fanjo, but for me, size definitely matters.

It probably is okay - your sexual preferences are your own business though. Why do you feel the need to ask?
And why is does a man stating a similar preference provoke a query? I remember a thread a while back where the OP was concerned that her son would be laughed at in furure because of his small size, or hav people walk away from relationships with him. A depressing number of posters pitched in saying they could never entertain sex with someone who wasn't well-endowed.

Its not the size that matters its the intelligent arse behind it :)

Spongebob it's no different to men saying they prefer big boobs or a tighter fit.

I'm also a big prick fan. Nothing at all wrong with stating a preference

I'd quite like one a bit bigger

I hate big penises and in my pre-DH days would stop seeing a man if he was too big. I saw nothing wrong with that.

It's your body it's 100% your choice who and what body parts have access to it.

It's your call 100%. There's nothing wrong with being picky.

Nothing wrong with that at all SensualSue. The bigger the better as far as I'm concerned. He needs to know how to use it, and have stamina also.

I would never have ruled out a man just for those reasons though, and thank god, because if I had I would never be with my DH......

Of course everyone is allowed a preference. We all have them. For example i prefer slim to average rather than fat. I prefer women who dont smoke, dont do drugs, dont have tattoos. dont drink excessively and have a job.

It's always okay to have a preference. It wouldn't be okay to stop seeing a guy who was modestly-endowed and tell him "This isn't working because you have a small penis."

I personally prefer average sized.

Each to their own. I don't understand how there can be huge differences in vagina size though? I doubt very much anyone has a vagina that is wider than the average penis?

I mean naturally not after they stretch when aroused etc.

Think it's to do with muscle elasticity rather than 'size' in terms of cm (vaginas, I mean)

Each to their own. I don't understand how there can be huge differences in vagina size though?

I've had a enjoyable varied sex life during the past 20 or so years and can honestly say that I've never experienced a noticeable difference in fanjo size from one women to another. And that includes several that have had kids.

I assume caveman was making a point. It's odd to me that a woman expresses a preference on sexual anatomy And that's ok but a man does it and he's unreasonable.

Sourpatchkid it’s a bit like the only white people can be racist thing