Me and dp had sex Monday night. I let him stick a cheeky finger or two into my back end, something I don't normally do but ide just had a shower so didn't feel as self conscious. It's 4 days later and I'm in so much pain! I bled for ages after, every poo makes me cry, my vulva feels swollen and sore and it's hard to sit or clench. He wasn't especially rough, it was just to add to foreplay.
Any tips on how to ease this pain? Paracetamol and tramadol isn't touching it ðŸ˜