A nose holding thing.

[LesisMiserable]

Having sex and for some reason was getting very turned on by DP putting his tongue quite forcefully in my mouth effectively filling it. At one point he held my nose. Now. I've seen this done etc I know what it's about. He only did it for a couple of seconds. Not sure if it is supposed to do something more than it did?

I need to point out because its MN, I'm not feeling abused or forced into degrading sex acts etc etc. Dp loves me I love him we like mixing it up a bit - I dont think I've been anywhere near as adventurous as him in the past or thought I may well have had as many sexual partners if not more - but I just wasnt sure if I was supposed to feel some kind of amazing feeling from being breathless for a few seconds? Anyone enlighten me?

It wasnt horrible just a bit neither here nor there really so probably wont encourage him to do it again.

Sounds odd to me, especially the bit about holding your nose. Have you been with him long? Do you trust him?

Yes been together two and half years, getting wed in a couple of months, trust him completely he's never scared me (this hasn't either) . I've seen it done once or twice in porn films, always in a sort of put on aggressive way - he wasnt doing it agressively, he just kind of did it, I'm assuming for my benefit for me to get some kind of turn on from it, but it didnt really do anything extra and I'm just wondering what I was supposed to feel (if anything) if anyone does this regularly?

It's a bit like holding your breath or a mild version of choking.

Some people find breath play erotic. Or find it easier to orgasm if they're holding their breath or having it held for them.

I would probably react like a squirrel trapped in a box if dp did this to me!

Squirrel trapped in a box is the best thing I've read on here for a long time

Temporary asphyxiation can allegedly heighten orgasm. People have accidentally died doing this.

There was an MP a while ago that was found dead in his flat wearing stockings and a scarf round his neck and biting on an orange.
Be careful, have a code to stop your dh or something.

Isn't it more for him than you? It makes you clench more (involuntarily) so you feel tighter.

Stephen Mulligan wasn't it?

Not sure about the clenching thing. I think he just felt a whim and went with it, I can't say I felt any different.

Anyway, I didn't feel the earth move from it so its obviously not my thing.

Breath play is fucking lovely.

I've probably had a few squirrel in a box moments.

All that matters is whether you like it or not.
It is something that some people love but it does have to be done safely. If you are going to do it again you should probably have some kind of stop signal.

For me it's about control. The fact that he's so in control of you he's even in control of when you breathe. So it gives the same kick as any submission gives. And it's a bit scary/exciting.