He lasts way too long

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I can orgasm very quickly 5 mins and I want to it to finish and sleep. Bf can happily pummel away for 45 mins and over he does edging where he gets close to orgasm then slows down how ever many times PIV can be painful when it lasts this long, I give bjs same problem and sore jaw and wrists . I have told him this so many times if he let's me control I can get him off quickly but he wants it to last longer he says.

I feel like an unpaid pornstar I'm knackered and my bits ache is this normal ? I don't mind the occasional marathon sex session but not all the time.

45 minutes?!

Unless it was the occasional marathon session that both are up for ('scuse the pun), that would bore me to distraction and probably end up hurting.

Definitely need a delicately worded conversation on the matter.

Is he too used to his own hand? (ie wanking lots) or has he watched a lot of porn where the men pound away for ages? Maybe you could finish him off by hand? Or move to a position where he will finish sooner e.g. From behind?

oh my god how hideous. he's being v, v selfish. if you have explained and he doesn't care... well... i would seriously consider whether i wanted to keep doing that.