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What physical pleasure do women get from anal sex?

20 replies

FreshnWild · 15/04/2017 22:43

Genuine question. Men obviously get prostate stimulation if receiving, but what about women? If you are into that, do you require additional stimulation to orgasm or is anal enough? I know nothing about it so sorry if it's a stupid question.

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TheNaze73 · 16/04/2017 10:57

I'm male & quite meh about anal however, my last few partners have been quite insistent on it. The General consensus is that clitoral & vaginal orgasns are far more intense because of it. Anal orgasms are meant to be the most intense.

alltouchedout · 16/04/2017 11:06

I go through stages where I love it and stages where I'm just not interested. Once I had an orgasm through it. It was different! I have no idea what's happening physically to make it feel good, but if you like a bit of a D/s spin on things it can really fit with that.

Gallavich · 16/04/2017 17:28

Hard to explain but it does feel pleasurable. It's not orgasmic on its own but it seems to make the whole area more sensitive.

Scribblegirl · 16/04/2017 17:31

I don't enjoy the pure sensation - very infrequent for us - but when we do do it it's a combination of the pleasure/pain thing (like spanking) added to the fact it feels really dirty, usually anything that makes me feel slutty is a turn on Blush

Emboo19 · 16/04/2017 17:42

Same as Gallavich really, I do find it enjoyable but I don't orgasm from that alone.
Everyone's different though, you'll only know how it feels for you by giving it a go!!

SpookyPotato · 16/04/2017 17:49

It just feels really, really good once he's in there and moving slowly to start with. I like it probably every few months and usually orgasm when DP is rubbing my clit at the same time. I love that it feels dirty too... I've never done any of the prep that people talk about though, just a bit of lube and get on with it! I think it helps that DP's penis is average size.

user1477381393 · 18/04/2017 09:46

I think anal depends on the kind of sex you're having. Me and partner only do it when its really dirty, we're caught up in the moment and there's no thoughts going through your head about how it might hurt. We also don't go straight in with the penis, its a really nice but different feeling when there's such much going on, different stimulations. Everyone should try it once!

ragz134 · 18/04/2017 09:50

Same as Scribblegirl really, do it occasionally and mostly because it feels so naughty!
Quite often DH will pop a finger in though, it definitely makes orgasm quicker and better. He's quite well equipped, so we don't often do full anal (unless I'm drunk!).

Snowfire · 27/04/2017 21:12

Following as DP is very keen for us to try anal but I've never done it before.

Gallavich · 27/04/2017 21:29

Do you want to snowfire?

Snowfire · 28/04/2017 13:42

I'm not really sure how I feel about it to be honest. DP told me early on that he really likes it and we have experimented a bit with him touching (and licking) me around there which I do find pleasurable. I think what I'm worried about is it being painful or having some kind of embarrassing accident.

Gallavich · 28/04/2017 14:21

If he has a larger than average penis I wouldn't attempt it. Likewise if you have any history of anal fissures or piles.
It shouldn't hurt if done very slowly and gently with lots of lube.
Unless you haven't pooed for several days there will be no poo in your lower passage so you are unlikely to have any accident either. My rule is always using a condom so that it can be whipped off with a tissue immediately, and also I would never allow a man to ejaculate up there as that's just gross.

Fortnum · 28/04/2017 15:11

We had anal sex a few times years ago always very slowly with lots of lube. It was absolutely fun but we stopped after the kids came along. We had a long time without sex recently and have just reignited our sex lives over the last couple of weeks which has been amazing. This morning we had the most mind blowing sex completely unplanned and we then had anal sex twice more. It was completely out of the blue and i dont think ive ever seen my wife so turned on, i think we will be doing it a lot more !

Snowfire · 29/04/2017 07:46

The condom idea makes sense to me from a hygiene point of view. All food for thought!

ginandbearit · 01/05/2017 22:29

My only warning is about hygiene - please be careful about going from anal to vaginal intercourse - good friend had serious kidney infections most probably caused by bacterial infection from anal area .

Gallavich · 02/05/2017 09:48

That's another good reason to use condoms for anal at least and always change them between

dilapidated · 02/05/2017 14:17

We attempt it occasionally.

I've orgasmed purely through anal alone for the first time about a month or two ago.

Currently heavily pregnant so haven't tried in a while.

Dp quite large and it takes a lot of preparation and the right lube.
Can't be a quicky in the slightest but it's such a turn when we do

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Branleuse · 13/07/2017 07:15

I'm not sure I can describe "what" physical pleasure, but sometimes I'm really in the mood for it and it's just really intense and amazingly pleasurable. If I wasn't in the right mood or state of arousal then it would be horrible

LivMoore · 13/07/2017 18:02

Anal sex doesn't make me orgasm in and of itself but as the area is so sensitive it can really heighten and intensify things when accompanied by clitoral or vaginal stimulation.
In terms of bum play, what is most pleasurable for me is reverse cowgirl when dh inserts a finger in my butt. That, in addition to pov can bring about a very intense orgasm very quickly! It's also a great view for dh and gets him off too.
I'd recommend that first for people wanting to try a bit of bum play

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