Sex on top

[scaredoftheunknown]

Okay ... doing the deed with new guy on Friday ...

Scared ... I've not got much experience because my ex was a twat and just wanted to do missionary .

Can anyone give me any tips for sex on top ? I'm so embarrassed

This thread has reminded me how much I hate sex. Thanks.

Practice makes perfect

Take it gently!

Id say the whole point of you being on top is for you to dictate the pace. Try and enjoy it and do what feels good for you, rather than trying to gop around like a porny energiser bunny. But maybe im selfish

If you're prone to UTIs then be extra vigilant - more water, make sure you have some pee to release afterwards.

Have fun.

Dont worry about it,its just another position. I love it when a woman goes on top. It is so much more intimate,we can kiss,i can massage her back, her breasts, suck her nipples and stimulate her clitoris. Make sure you have good foreplay and that you are nice and wet to ensure smooth entry. Take it gently. Remember you are lowering yourself onto his penis and you dont want to hurt him. Personally i usually have the woman straddle me, i then part her outer labia and gently guide my penis into her. I then gently thrust whilst she just enjoys :)

Headboards make great handholds for leverage ;)

First time I went on top (only been with my boyfriend so he knew everything was new for me)
We did it with him sat up and me on his lap, he held my hips and I had my arms around his neck, so we could find our rhythm together and I didn't feel quite so much pressure. Still my favourite position for sofa sex!

If I'm on top and he's laid down, I find leaning back slightly, while he holds my hips and I either put my hands on the side of the bed or behind me on his legs, the best way for balance and position

if it slips out, laugh and put it back in. It happens.

Personally i usually have the woman straddle me, i then part her outer labia and gently guide my penis into her. I then gently thrust whilst she just enjoys

This would ruin it for me!

Why not let the woman set the pace and rhythm? I think you're missing the point or at least you would be for me.

Totally agree alaugh - this a woman's ride, let her ride!

Yep, it's all about the grinding for me.

Clitoral stimulation using your body weight against his pelvic bone, timing with rhythmic motion. Teasing kisses and boobs available for nestling.

That's what sex on top is best for, for me as a woman.

The classic sort of porn stance...girl crouched on haunches, madly pumping up and down, is really not my cup of tea....I'd get no enjoyment out of it, and probably the end result would be cramp and an accident. I think that's all about the "view" from a male perspective tbh.

I couldn't agree more with you ineedmore
I'm not sure I have the leg strength to bob up and down for ages!! Plus my DH says it feels way better for him too when I grind on him so double bonus really he gets what he likes I get clitoral stimulation win win

and probably the end result would be cramp and an accident.

Keep your bra on ! Much easier 😂😂

I am more than happy for a woman to "grind" on me and even a little more. My previous partner was quite passive and needed some encouragement to ride and preferred me to her,,thrust. I would be guartded about the whole ride 'em cowboy role thorugh. Men are vulnerable in this position and a snapped dick is no fun.

Am I the only person who just can't come from girl on top?!

I have tried, several times but I feel so exposed and self conscious, but more than that, I can't seem to get any clitirol stimulation from it? Grinding on the pelvic bone? How, my clit never seems to be anywhere near the pelvic bone?! Argh, so frustrating!

A snapped dick?

😶

www.menshealth.com/health/what-is-a-penile-fracture

User. Sort f tilt your pelvis forward and 'grind'
It took me a while to get used to it, but it's great!
I ride him to get myself off, then let him have his wicked way with me then round 2 starts!

Doesn't do it for me either and if you're not confident about it you might feel a bit erm exposed. Have you spoken with your new BF and told him you're anxious?

I must admit I prefer being on top. I like having the control! If you're nervous about your body (though there's no need!) you can dim the lights. Yes to grinding

Ps- thanks for the snapped dick link...I did google it....and saw a purple, broken one...ouch.

Grinding to me is easier/only possible if you're pretty much lying on top. It's the only woman on top position i like at all, being on my knees is pointless from a pleasure point of view, though it helps to get things started. Others will be more experienced than me though.

Don't forget side by side... always surprisingly good for a bit IMO.

Also dont forget the reverse girl on top position with you facing away from him. This can be quite horny too as he can massage your back and your breasts, also his penis is at a different angle and so is more likely to stimulate the frontal wall of your inner vagina. You also have good access to massage his balls and play with your clitoris or let him do it..