Omg, this is amazing!

[Bettyandtheboy]

NC for obvious reasons but I just need to share with someone and it would be TMI for RL.

DH and I have always been kinky and actually met on the London Kink scene. Years later, we are in professional jobs, with small DC, drive Volvos and wear Boden ( you know the sort). Any sort of kink went out the window years ago and tbh, we went 3 months without DTD recently and neither of us commented on it!
Anyway, after a firm and frank conversation a few weeks ago, where we opened up about everything, DH and I have decided to move towards a female led relationship. We are giving it a 6 weeks trial before deciding if it is something we want to do on a more permeant basis and after 10 days, it's an absolute resounding 'Yes' from me!!
It's amazing! I feel empowered, beautiful, confident and sexy for the first time in a long time! We have had sex or played every night for the first time in years and I never want it to stop. I'm finding myself craving him if he has been away for a few hours!

If anyone is out there, stuck in a bit of a 'meh' relationship, I urge you to google FLR. It has absolutely changed our lives. I never want to go back to the way it used to be.

Sorry for the long post, but I'm on cloud 9!!!

I told DH this morning that if he didn't start rinsing the sink out after brushing his teeth I was going to give his (expensive) computer mouse to our 3-year-old as a bath toy.

He rinsed the sink.

I've just told DH to make me a cuppa and he's acquiesced.

Totally female led relationship here. If he doesn't empty the dishwasher he gets no friggen dinner.

I bought my shirt an Apple Watch. Now I text him my 'tea needs' from upstairs and 5 mins later a cup of tea arrives. He used to pretend he couldn't see my texts as his phone was in the kitchen. The Apple Watch took that excuse away. That taught the bastard.

My shirt???? My dh

I have asked my husband to bring up a glass of squash for me to drink in bed as I'm too lazy. I feel empowered.

We tried an FLR on a recent trip to Devon. We just ended up getting lost.

Lol

Haha, you lot are so mean! I'm serious, our marriage is in the middle of a renaissance and I'm loving it.... even if you lot are enjoying taking the piss

Good for you!! I'm still PMSL at some of these comments

Sounds a bit exhausting though Betty.

I'm curious as to the working of it though?

It hasn't been too bad pledge, work wise. We have bought a few books about how to set it up and apart from a few late nights due to getting carried away , it's been pretty easy.
Basically you decide what you're into and what you're definitely not. Come up with an agreement of punishments and rewards, then use these to make him do what ever you want!

Ok so it's dom and sub type thing?

Sounds a bit like if he cleans the loo, she gives him a BJ?

Hatelogginin - I thought you were using 'shirt' the way 'men' use 'skirt'/'bird' etc 😏 I quite liked it

Sorry, I just don't get it?

Maybe I just enjoy being thrown around the bedroom and pinned down by my very big fella too much to "get this".

I don't get it either... sounds like spam

So he washes up and then you give him a BJ?

Blimey my mind's boggling at 'punishments'. What do you get him to do? Cut your toenails? Take the rubbish out in teeny tiny bags?

I'm not sure what you mean about setting it up? Isn't it just something you decide together?

Fascinated. I'm far too "sub" in an ideal relationship to want this but fascinated by it all :) So glad it's working out for you!

@Hate, you could be onto something.

I think it would be quite cool if DW introduced me as her 'shirt', sounds kind of tough, no? - in a lumberjack kind of way..

Erm me and DP are both females, so......who leads?

Toss a coin?🤔😜