Baby oil fetish

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My new partner always wants to use baby oil when we have sex. I suggested we try without but he says he is nervous without it.
This is all new to me as have only been with one partner for 23 years after a divorce.
Does anyone have experience of this?

Where is he putting it? Maybe his ex had lubrication issues?

Is it all over or just for a bit of lube? If the latter then I can see where they are coming from. You get used to things.

You really don't want that up your chuff. It's not good for you.

yes, it is up the there. Is it really not good for you?

I'd use proper lube rather than baby oil.

It's also not suitable for use with condoms as it's not water based. Is he paranoid about smell? Could he be trying to mask any potential odours (from him) with it? Coconut oil is supposed to be a nice lubricant but I've never used it myself

Not really something for you up there

Your better off getting KY jelly if he needs lube

I would ask him to swap for something more fanjo friendly.

I would also wonder whether his foreskin was a bit too tight or something or whether by introducing excess lube he was trying to reduce sensation and last longer. I mean, it's not the weirdest fetish but I'd be interested to know whether it stems from something else

Buy some water-based lube (Lovehoney, Sliquid etc) KY is fine but it's not my favourite.
Baby oil is not good for.

Coconut oil is much better and very neutral baby oil is non porous and very bad for skin and muff!!

Using lube is normal but proper lube is better than baby oil. Get liquid silk its great.

Cocoa butter based massage bars from Lush...

Your Fanjo your roolz.

I second Coconut oil, it's the best sex lube for many reasons. It's light and almost odour free, it's naturally antibacterial and good for your skin...plus you can eat it so good for use on parts that you'll want to suck and lick too!

I’ve a baby oil fetish too. But all over during foreplay. Nothing beats it.