I've read and watched a lot on this and it really turns me on. I'm quite shy in talking about it but have asked OH to be more dominant in the bedroom and he's said he'd like to tie me up & that he loves to be in control. I want him to be more forceful & 'push my limits' (& have a safe word in place) but how is the best way to bring this up!?! I'd also like to get some proper restraints & different toys to what we already have (different vibrators) & for him to take more of a proper role, but I just don't know how to go about it!
Thanks in advance!