How many times a month?

[mummytofourbabies]

Just that really.
Just curious..
I'll start, 5 years in and we do it 2/3 times a week on average, but can still sometimes go through spells of it being 2 times a day

Sorry just realised my title is "how many times a month" and Iv answered per week
Sorry, been a long day.

Are you just showing off?

Showing off??
To who? Complete strangers? That don't know me???

Haha, no definately not, was just being genuinely nosey.

1/6 of a time on average. Been a slow couple of years

Ha yeah show off ;) we've been together 8 years, 2 kids (aged 4 & 1), were both 24 years old, and I'd say 2 times a week (3 if I'm lucky ha). But when I'm on its 0 for minimum 5 days :/ he hates blood lol - sorry if tmi!

It used to be 1-2 times a day. 69er in the morning and great big shag at bedtime!
After pregnancy, breastfeeding, child rearing now it's more like 1-2 times a month! Sad, not unusual, I think this happens to many couples.

Looking forward to upping the frequency.

Oh it varies massively. Before ds3, who was born when his brothers were 5 and 8, we were back to just about every day and absolutely desperate if we'd gone more than two days without it. Ds3 will be 2 at the end of November and we still haven't got back to that- we can have a month where it's 5 times a week and then one where it's less than once a week. I guess atm the average is twice a week but I'm hoping/ expecting that as ds3 gets older it'll ramp back up again. We'd reached a bit of an all time high point in terms of frequency and quality at the time we accidentally conceived ds3 and I'd love to have that back. But for now there just isn't the time and we're very tired a lot.

Ttc so lots!!

Been together 17 years and we have sex probably 6-8 times/month on average. DD primary school age so it's quite easy to fit round her because she goes to bed early but I expect the opportunities to reduce somewhat as she gets older.

My wife I have been together 10 years, married 5 with a 3 old girl who rarely stays in her own bed! We're probably somewhere between once a week, sometimes only once a fortnight. Used to be more frequent, I would love it every day but my wife is not as keen. Still find my wife massively sexy and my sex drive seems to be through the roof.

Together for 23 years. At the moment 9 or 10 times a month. Has been a lot, lot less than this for many years, but having a bit of a revival.

Sadly 1-2 times a year :-( Not my choice, but my husband has a very low sex drive due to back ache and medication. We've been married 6 years. I fantasise about having a discreet lover but don't want the pain

Same as you OP but finding it a bit difficult now my son stays up later than I want to!

3-4 times a week so 12-16 times a month, sometimes more sometimes a bit less.

I probably have it about twice a week which is more than when I was in a relationship

Together nearly 25 years, twice a week for us. Has been more but Life gets in the way, it's always good though so I'm happy putting quality over quantity.

Been together just over 2 yrs, we're 47 & 51 and have sex about 2/3 a week.
I've just had a little operation so got to abstain for 2 weeks. But we're still finding ways to have fun in the bedroom.