Have you ever used an escort?

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...and if you did, how was it? Was it what you thought it would be or a complete let down? Kinda curious but would like to have some views on it.

cant help you but would be interesting to hear other people opinions

I'm not sure a site with a primarily female readership is really going to get you the best results here, OP.

Or are you interested in women who hire escorts?

Yes, for a threesome and it was awesome!

Yes, women who hire escorts. I've read articles in newspapers but I would rather hear it from real people.

A male escort or a female escort?

Male.

Sorry, can't help you as this is totally beyond my experience. Can't imagine wanting to have sex with someone who didn't desire ME. The thought that they might be placing an metaphorical clothes peg on their nose and thinking about the pay check would be just about the biggest turn off ever.

Hope that doesn't come across as massively judgemental. I'm really curious to know what the draw is for you?

It doesn't Lazy I get your point entirely. In the age of Tinder & shots on a Friday night, I struggle to see why anyone would actually pay for sex, especially someone who was just going through the motions

Lazy and TheNaze you do come across as massively judgemental .

The Op was asking on an adult Sex discussion board has anyway used an escort. Your personal feelings about such things are frankly worthless in this discussion.

I have Op (female), great fun. The main difference if they are good at their job is that the focus is solely on you. It's not like hooking up, i.e Tinder, where you are expected to ensure the other person has an equally good time. An enthusiastic and skilled escort is amazing.

As a one-off or a rare treat to ones self, it's great fun .

Sorry Back never meant to. I'm pretty much anything goes if everyone's happy

My sister has used one - she is not a shy one!!!!

In her words - he was extemely good looking and fit, did exactly what she wanted him to do as many times as she wanted it.

Lets face how many tinder shags are crap?
Wont do oral/crap at it. lasts 30 seconds, wants anal cant kiss, gets all moody, wants to see you again/doesnt want to see you again etc.

Not for everyone of course.

Certainly wasn't trying to come across that way Caveman, which is why I didn't include my views on the rights and wrongs of buying sex. Although I do actually think it would be legitimate to discuss these things here - after all sex does happen in a moral/social context.

Was simply explaining why, for me, it would not a be remotely pleasurable experience. Could have just answered 'no', I suppose.

No but have considered it.

Agree with tinder shags being in the main, crap. It's like a really really lame lucky dip.

When I was single for a long time and had no opportunity to go out and pull I'd get these massive cravings for some kind of physical touch. In the end I booked a full body massage with a really hot male masseuse. It was amazing. Went home and sorted myself out

A female buddy of mine and her husband of 20 years do this quite a lot, maybe once a month and have done so for years, sometimes it's a male escort, sometimes it's a female.

She loves it, her hubby loves it, they reckon it's higher quality sex than just hooking up with a random, everyone is happy.