Prostate Massage

[JamesTiberiusKirk]

Hi everyone,

I have been reading up on the benefits of prostate massages, and am keen to explore this with my wife. I showed her a couple of articles about it but she was reluctant to try it, as she was worried about mess (sorry if TMI) and sticking her fingers "up there".

I was just wondering if anyone on the forum had tried this with their partners, and what their experience was?

Many thanks!

I'm intrigued that someone might not be up for doing prostate massage, but might be willing to watch a professional doing it to her DH. I'm now thinking of some sort of Venn diagram .

I'd be up for neither

OP you can purchase smaller dildos and vibrators with good suction cups or even purchase a specific shaped toy for you to DIY.

And ex of mine absolutely loved this and I agree your wife has to be willing but it's not impossible for you to indulge in this alone.

Love honey has a good selection of anal toys. I'd recommend their basics butt plug (small purple one) because it's super soft but firm for first time use. If you want something firmer opt for silicon toys and use plenty of lube. Defo use condoms over all toys that you use anally.

If you are in the larger side you may struggle to do this alone - where suction cup toys come in - but certainly give it a go.

I was quite confused by the idea of watching your husband getting a professional prostate massage too!
It made me think of professional yoni massage

I have done it once, with a partner who was really into it, and had lots of experience of doing it with previous partners. We split up for other reasons so it never became a regular thing.

The notion of penetrating a man did/does not appeal to me, because it inverts all my heterosexual norms and expectations. However, it was a turn on because 1. he really enjoyed it, and 2. it felt a bit naughty. I have absolutely no idea how a prostrate massage should be done, I just treated it as I do my own g-spot when masturbating: one finger, a couple of inches in and then massaged it gently but firmly in a 'come hither' motion. Is this the right way? Hopefully somebody clued up will come along in a minute and inform us all.

Oh, and I have done the external massage - firm strokes or licks on the perineum. Again, have no idea if this actually feels at all nice - all my partners have been far too polite to comment one way or another!

Hope that wasn't TMI.