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Kinksters?

45 replies

OpiesOldLady · 14/03/2016 19:24

Following the fisting thread, i was wondering if there's any other kinksters out there that fancy a natter?

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velourvoyageur · 19/03/2016 21:27

I like very rough sex but I would never see myself as a sub! am I just kidding myself?

Room101isWhereIUsedToLive · 19/03/2016 22:08

No, I don't think so. I once defined myself as a sub but actually its a label that I grew uncomfortable with. I now would say that I am a kinkster. though recently met someone who I am trying to introduce the idea of domination to, hmmm

AboutBlank · 19/03/2016 22:36

I think dh and I are kinksters, but we've never been to a fetish club or joined internet sites.

These days it's mostly in the bedroom, we've calmed down quite a bit.

but over the years it's been in all sorts of places. At any time of the day. We've had many toys. But my favourite is the strap on.

Dh likes to be dominated sometimes, and is a TV. (But not every time)

I like like to be dominated as well.

OK can't believe I've just wrote this and going to post it! I've never talked to people in RL about it as it's waaaay to personal.

chelle792 · 20/03/2016 07:18

I find rope play kinda sends me into a trance. DH has to be quite mindful safety wise as I get pretty unsteady on my feet.

I won't admit this too loudly but we have a DD disclaimer for those stumbling across this, it doesn't stand for 'ddauggter'- relationship of sorts with dh as hoh

GhettoFabulous · 20/03/2016 09:04

I'm in a daddy/babygirl relationship with my partner and am Mummy to a lovely sub.

Room101isWhereIUsedToLive · 20/03/2016 14:25

That trance is called sub-space. Wonderful place to be!!

HairySubject · 20/03/2016 22:23

I have always been interested in rope play but never actually tried it. Wouldn't have the first clue how to get started and since I am not in a relationship I have no one to bind me. Sad definitely one for the future though.

G1raffe · 20/03/2016 22:31

Hmm. May need a name change but marking space!

Oldraver · 20/03/2016 23:15

I had a boyfriend that was very good at Japanese Rope Bondage. Its a veyr hard thing to describe as I found it quite comforting..

It also looks gorgeous and really wished I had pictures of...as it is I only have one on my profile (right at the bottom)

Eekaman · 21/03/2016 03:07

Room 101...

When we were younger, it was a regular thing to find us shagging in nightclubs, or taxis going home - maybe the pills were pushing us along.

But we've had fun on nudist beaches with an audience, in a car parked by the side of a busy road, oh, on the bonnet of my red penis extension in the car park behind TGI Fridays in Edgbaston, in Sydney CBD city centre high rise apartment, with the lights on, so all those bunches of other apartment dwellers could see us, mind you, we used to watch plenty of others too, we definitely weren't alone in doing this.

A special one was at a premier league football club, we were there for a birthday party in one of the suites. I wandered off to find a toilet and instead found an unlocked hospitality box, so I grabbed the lovely Mrs Eek and into the box we went. I have to say, I was impressed with our performance, and we made full use of the furnishings, including a large wood dining table. The next evening we walked into our busy, noisy local and a couple of drinks later, someone pointed out there was a black and white security type cctv video playing on the tv screens. Yup. There we were on full display, but luckily, the image was pretty grainy, so whilst you could see what we were doing, you couldn't see any detail.

There's also a large Tumblr community dedicated to sharing photos of ones spouses, we might have several images on there too.

chelle792 · 23/03/2016 08:23

oldraver you're right about it being comforting. room101 do you get a drop after? I have the worlds worst drop where I'm reduced to a shaking, sobbing wreck. It's a release and dh is great with the aftercare but it's intense. Rope is where I get the worst drop

Room101isWhereIUsedToLive · 23/03/2016 11:22

Yes, its basically a come down like you would get with any kind of high (what goes up must come down). Actually that explains why I'm in such a crabby mood today. Not that we played particularly hard last night

SolidGoldBrass · 23/03/2016 11:30

I got a bit wierdly weepy after tying up the toyboy properly for the first time (I am a rank beginner at this stuff and we went to a rope play event which was fascinating but frustrating for me as I was so incompetent.)

sadgirlsclub · 24/03/2016 23:49

Its so funny how rope elicits such strong reactions in people. I get that spaced out feel too. Unfortunately none of my current partners are all that good with rope. I'm really good with rope but I'm a complete sub and tying other people up makes me feel really weird. I'm glad this thread is here; I've had nothing but bad experiences with fetlife and its associated events.

chelle792 · 27/03/2016 19:15

It's not all bad on fet. I met my husband and a very good friend on fet. However, I also met a guy who ended up my housemate and was then arrested so not all good.

I think it's because rope is quite a sensual proceed the reaction is strong. It's all about stillness, precision, etc. It almost gives more time for your thoughts to turn inwards.

My dh learnt his rope skills on youtube Blush

1DAD2KIDS · 11/04/2016 11:31

The beautiful thing about this thread is that it show the range and diversity people's kinks. I love the fact that we all have such differences in what terms us on. You can just stick people in little boxes (unless that's your thingGrin). Its great that people can open up and celebrate their sexuality and fetishists. Give me hope for a less repressive future.

Guiltypleasures001 · 11/04/2016 20:16

I've done a little bit of rope play many years ago, wax with candles but I most enjoyed wrapping someone with pallet wrap mummification have to be careful with that one though.

I'de have to go on YouTube now to remember any knots I've done Confused

Guiltypleasures001 · 11/04/2016 20:18

Rope play if done right ie by a master is about still feeling the ropes on you after,they are removed, supposed to be very other worldly,

Sigh I feel very old now

Degustibusnonestdisputandem · 04/05/2016 12:31

yup, signing in. Have been somewhat vanilla in recent years but that seems to have been changing of late!

rominsandals · 19/05/2016 19:46

Me (under recent nc)

I did have very subby relationships in the past. Am in a new one and having surprising dominant urges for the first time ever, totally different dynamic. The quandary is I do have a masochistic side and like to relinquish control sometimes. I can't see her as dominant, not the person she is at all. So no switching Sad

Sub drop is horrible for me, I get very anxious with it, kind of reminds me after I used to take ecstasy years ago.

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