I think my vagina's too big

[blackberrybibbl]

Since leaving a long sexless marriage I've had sexual relationships with three boyfriends over the last year. I now believe my vagina's lost its' snugness due to childbirth (I have two dc) When it gets to piv, they're pumping away & I honestly can't feel a thing. It really makes me feel down-hearted. There's nothing you can do about a loose vagina is there? I did my pelvic floors, I have no problem with continence etc. I'm just guessing I've been left stretched by two vaginal deliveries. I've also noticed my bfs have had to really 'pump away' excessively & I think this is due to lack of friction. Is there any hope?

Most women don't orgasm through PIV sex anyway so as long as your lovers are attentive to getting you off is it still ok to also continue to have vaginal sex? Or have you gone off it because of the lack of feeling?

I always used to cum through piv, in fact I need piv for a satisfactory orgasm. I miss that feeling of being 'filled' and they don't orgasm either probably due to lack of adequate friction so it always ends up being a hand-job or oral, which is ok but not as good.

If buy a pelvic floor toner. Assume you've tried diff positions and clenching your pelvic floor during piv already to no avail?

I would work on your pelvic floor. You should be able to feel it. I've given birth twice and don't have this problem, I don't think it's necessarily related to childbirth.
It's also worth trying out different positions to find one that gives you better sensations.

I would start doing your pelvic floor exercises every day and many times. It wont take long to start to feel an improvement and it will make sex better for both of you. You can also practice when he is inside you, tightening and relaxing.