can't get in the mood!

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Been married 13 years with 2 dc. Often I rely on fantasising during sex to escape from day to day stuff and get myself in the mood. Recently though nothing seems to be working and usual stuff that turns me on just doesn't do it. I am getting quite worried about this as I love sex normally. Any ideas for good erotic books or any other ideas for getting my sex drive back are very welcome please.

Literotica.com has thousands of stories on any theme imaginable. Worth a browse!

There's always the collections of women's sexual fantasies by Nancy Friday.

Have you made recent changes to your routine which may have had an impact on your libido? This could include new medications of any sort, change in supplements, exercising more (or less), change in diet...

Is it something your husband is doing, or not doing? It took me a while to realise that the reason my libido bombed was related to my ex being a bit of a knob and I hitting another rough patch.