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He's 10 inches - how do I give oral?

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dollylollypop · 14/12/2015 23:15

This isn't a stealth gloat, honestly, but my new man is 10 inches erect, and not much shorter flaccid. PIV is incredibly good, I know he wants me to go down on him because he's a man but I genuinely don't know how to give him pleasure.

Previous partner was less than half that, and really enjoyed it, which made me feel I was good, but am so worried about not giving new man any pleasure. I could never take anything that big in my mouth, but I want to please him so much, because he gives me multiple orgasms every time - he is the best lover I have ever had.

Any tips please? x

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IrenetheQuaint · 14/12/2015 23:19

Jesus, he must be banging on your kidneys.

AnyFucker · 14/12/2015 23:21

Carefully

AnyFucker · 14/12/2015 23:22

Actually, I think your user name is your subconscious giving you the answer.

LaurieFairyCake · 14/12/2015 23:25

But most of the feelings in the end, you don't have to fit the entire shaft in your mouth

Just lick and suck as normal. He's bound to like it. Not many blokes complain
about how bad their partners are at oral sex Hmm

gamerchick · 14/12/2015 23:30

Yes carefully with a hand (or 2) underneath your gob. A little scraping of teeth every now and then should keep him still or failing that an elbow rammed in each hip. Pillow on floor with him in a sitting up position and you kneeling inbetween so you can control things.

Then fill your boots.

WallyBantersJunkBox · 15/12/2015 00:23

Agree with other posters...my DP is huge too...

Just concentrate on the head, swirl your tongue over it, flick over the frenulum etc whilst masturbating the shaft. Then go for an occasional big lick from shaft to tip after paying some attention to his balls.

Seems to work for me anyhow! Smile

Original poster
dollylollypop · 15/12/2015 01:55

Thanks for the tips, and 'carefully' made me Xmas Grin

I know he won't complain - if he does, it'll be the first and last time!

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Eekaman · 15/12/2015 19:34

More tips from a male perspective, but these apply to all BJ's not just exceptional outliers like OP's new fella...

Scrunchy. Keep you hair pulled back so as not to obscure the view.
Make eye contact with him, too many women close their eyes.
And overall - enjoy it. If you aren't then it's two people not having fun and there's no point in that at all.

MrsDiesel · 15/12/2015 19:36

Lots of lube or spit, use hands on the shaft, mouth sucking the end. Jobs a good Un.

BrushtheHeat · 15/12/2015 19:40

Ever heard of the grapefruit method? Just google it! (I've never tried it btw so can't vouch for it's effectiveness.)

BrushtheHeat · 15/12/2015 19:41

Sorry, that should be grapefruit technique! Xmas Wink

Doublebubblebubble · 15/12/2015 19:47

The grapefruit technique is one of the funniest things I have ever seen in. My. Life! My 2 cents

BrushtheHeat · 15/12/2015 19:54

The noise double it's like a waste disposal unit! Grin dh baulks at getting one and so do I at giving one but the article about it I've just read makes me want to give it a go! Might put a grapefruit in dhs stocking this year and see if he gets the hint!

MarkRuffaloCrumble · 15/12/2015 20:05

Popping a grapefruit on my shopping list Grin

Guiltypleasures001 · 15/12/2015 21:49

Can I suggest a mouth full of warm beverage of your choice, keep it in your mouth then lower mouth over his dick, keep a seal around your mouth then dribble a bit out at a time, and lick it back up.

BrushtheHeat · 15/12/2015 21:53

That sounds far too complicated guilty if you have a mouthful of beverage how're you supposed to fit a cock in without choking?! Why don't you practise on a courgette and let us know how it goes?! Wink

whomovedmychocolate · 15/12/2015 21:57

Get a fliptop head Grin

Seriously, I have the same problem. We got over it. Hand over hand grasp, aim for the end.

God speed Grin

BalaRua · 15/12/2015 21:59

I don't rate grapefruit, can I use an orange instead?

WhoTheFuckIsSimon · 15/12/2015 22:04

I think I might try that grapefruit thing.

thegiddylimit · 15/12/2015 22:19

I thought back on all my years reading Pinterest, and realized that this was truly the first time any craft project I had found on the Internet had actually worked out.

I love this sentence in that blog post. I might have to buy a grapefruit this week.

BrushtheHeat · 15/12/2015 22:31

My favourite sentence too, giddy Grin

Guiltypleasures001 · 16/12/2015 08:46

Morning Brush be been doing that technique for years on and off a little imagination goes a long way Wink

MarkRuffaloCrumble · 16/12/2015 09:11

Bala, I thought the same thing but didn't want to insult my DP by downgrading him. As long as nobody needs to try a satsuma we're ok!

MarkRuffaloCrumble · 16/12/2015 09:13

Guilty - just make sure it's not fizzy. I read about champagne BJs once and thought it would be a lovely treat for DP.

However I don't drink champagne, so I tried it with cream soda. I think the bubbles must be a bit bigger and more fierce. Blush

You know how they say a man has never complained about a bad blowie...

He's never let me live it down!

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