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Kissing after oral

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MerryDickCrack · 13/12/2015 09:49

Have new man Smile
Things just starting to get intimate. He went down on me the other day and we kissed after, no issues.
Yesterday I went down on him. He didn't come in my mouth but I noticed he wouldn't kiss me after. Is this a thing? I'm v out of practice but it's going to put me off going down on him if he won't kiss after.

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flanjabelle · 13/12/2015 09:53

Dp will kiss me after as long as he hasn't come. If he has I quickly brush my teeth. I think you will have to ask him.

TooShyShyHushHush · 13/12/2015 09:58

I had a partner who would not kiss me afterwards too.

When I asked him he suggested I pop to the bathroom to brush my teeth or even a quick swill of mouthwash!

He was reluctant to explain why he wouldn't kiss me but eventually said he was worried if he enjoyed the taste of cock it might make him a bit gay... Hmm

I was young and naive at the time and it wasn't even this that ended the relationship!

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MerryDickCrack · 13/12/2015 10:08

Omg! I'm in hope it's not severe homophobia causing it! I will ask him. Thank you Flowers

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possum18 · 13/12/2015 10:14

Dp and I are the same, if he has not come - kissing is fine, I wouldn't want to have to go clean my teeth mid flow and kill the mood before the main event! If not being used as foreplay or he gets too excited and he comes I would automatically get up and clean my teeth.

pocketsaviour · 13/12/2015 12:03

eventually said he was worried if he enjoyed the taste of cock it might make him a bit gay...

LOL, I've heard this a couple of times too, but not since I started shagging men instead of boys Grin

RedRainRocks · 13/12/2015 13:06

Whether he has come or not, if he isn't kissing me after I've gone down on him - I'm not going to be going there again! Christ, what on earth? It's HIS body that's just been in my mouth... I find that all a little Hmm

honeysucklejasmine · 13/12/2015 13:09

DH had this cobvo with his colleagues the other day apparently. All of them expect one lad were fine with it. DH said they ripped the piss out of him for being a prude. And pointed out that if he expects his girlfriend to put it in her mouth, he can't refuse to kiss her after. Double misogynistic standards.

PrimeDirective · 13/12/2015 15:50

he was worried if he enjoyed the taste of cock it might make him a bit gay
People who say that clearly don't understand what it means to be gay!

My DH is fine with it. I'd be very unimpressed if he was happy for me to give him head but not happy to kiss me afterwards!

Jennifer11 · 13/12/2015 18:14

Am I just a dirty bitchConfused - it's never occurred to me that there's an issue there. If you're happy to lick their bits can't they cope with their own?

AnyFucker · 13/12/2015 18:15

Menchildren < shakes head >

cricketnut77 · 13/12/2015 18:28

I love a long sloppy snog after a blow job!

WallyBantersJunkBox · 15/12/2015 00:19

I often come up for a kiss in the middle of the execution...and love the taste on his beard when he does the same to me.

Never thought it was an issue, it does sound a little immature to me.

extrastrongblackcoffee · 16/12/2015 11:39

Well when I was with men, I've had similar reactions tbh OP, but now I'm with a woman, we kiss during and afterwards, no problems Wink In fact, it's incredibly hot.

Should point out that I'm not tarring all men with the same brush. That was just my experience.

Qwebec · 17/12/2015 02:53

I'm with Red. If someone had that reaction I'd never do it again. Never met a guy who reacted like that, WTF how can he even explain it? Darling your mouth is too dirty for me to kiss? Confused

Baconyum · 17/12/2015 02:58

I agree simple solution no kissing no more blow jobs - bet he'll change his mind then! Honestly wtf! I've never experienced this.

HerrenaHarridan · 17/12/2015 03:00

If he thinks it's that dirty you should probably stop putting it in your mouth!

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differentnameforthis · 17/12/2015 03:27

So it's OK to come in your mouth, but he refuses to kiss you afterwards, flanjabelle sounds like a charmer!!

Whether he has come or not, if he isn't kissing me after I've gone down on him - I'm not going to be going there again! Ditto!!

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