Mjndblowing sex

[Serioussteve]

It's a term oft-used, but what for you constitutes mind blowing sex?

I shall start (guy obviously) - I need intimacy to be able to really enjoy sex, and the best sex for me is being able to shower my sexual partner with ripples of pleasure and steadily increasing, repetitive, waves leading to strong orgasms. My OH can squirt so when she's been especially good/bad I encourage her to go wild and soak the bed.

It's strange as a guy but PIV is simply a means to an end, I much prefer the variation that comes with extensive, long lasting foreplay, and building things up through various oral techniques (licking the wishbone of the clitoris produces good results), fingering techniques and targeting the four or five main erogenous zones inside the vagina. Then there's multiple toys - Doxy wand, we-vibe tango and lelo ella are essentials - and PIV/PIA.

So, what's mindblowing about sex for you?

I enjoy seeing my DW in her underwear . Then I'll come over all flustered and need a little lie down and a restorative

Reading my book afterwards.

Lovely bit of oversharing for a Wednesday morning.

No ones impressed Steve. Good sex is all about the person you're having sex with. They can be the most skilled person in the world, but if you (your personality, your body etc) doesn't do it for the woman, those skills mean nothing.

I'm going to venture a guess that nobody on here fancies you like your OH does, and so those words mean nothing.

Thats some post to eat your breakfast with

I'm not sure I've ever squirted in my life....

Orangeanddemons, why are you reading about sex at breakfast and then blaming the op?

Just catching up on Active threads I would imagine AD.

DH - is that you?!

Actually - our builder's called Steve. I'm now having very conflicted thoughts!

Sheesh some people on MN are seriously sounding like sour grapes.

I'm easily pleased. Give me doggy style with a hot guy (or even just a vaguely attractive one) and I'm grinning for hours!

Someone call for Brian!

Got to be honest Steve, that was a bit of over-sharing there. Even for me

I do think as a PP has pointed out that it's all about the individual chemistry between you and your partner(s).

I would say for me that the most intense experiences are when there's nobody else in the house (i.e. no housemates, parents or DC!) and there's plenty of time, and both of you are concentrating on giving the other the best possible time. (Whether simultaneously, or one after the other.)

No, I wasn't looking for any kind of validation.

I'm sorry I put people off their breakfast! Have asked for deletion.

Not so much over sharing as reducing an experience to a series of techniques (like baking - first you jiggle this then you get the equipment out! Mind blowing to me is being completely lost in the other person so you're not consciously thinking of what you'll do next!

No need to delete

The best thing about sex these days is that I can have a couple.of weeks off it after

How old is the Mrs? I'm. Sure my hormones have run out

Wishbone?

My favourite is probably amazing oral sex DP is genuinely amazing at it. Obviously PIV is great but oral is the best. Favourite positions are doggy followed a kind of sideways position. Can't really describe it but it's really chilled out and we always end up having a chat which I love.

I'm quite fussy, not sure if I have even had 'mind blowing sex' yet , I have been with guys who are pretty rubbish in bed but have been very passionate which makes me really horny, been with guys who know all the moves, loads of 4play but have not managed to make me orgasm. I think it depends a lot on how you feel about each other ( chemistry ) or how long you have gone without it , if it's been a while then any sex can seem good.

For me 'attention to detail' and asking your partner 'what they actually like' are very important, nothing worse than sleeping with a guy who's acting out a scene from a porn movie assuming that you are enjoying it.

Piv? Wishbone???

I don't think it is all about the pleasure of the sensation. It can be as much about the person and the moment. A stolen quickie can be as mind blowing as a full on evening session. Sometimes foreplay is everything, other times it's about just getting down and dirty.
Skills can be learnt over time, chemistry can't.

PIV = Penis In Vagina
Wishbone = the folds of the labia around the clitoris (forms a wishbone shape)

you are Alan Partridge and I claim my five pounds.

It's the connection between two people who are on the same page as each other, simple as that. Nothing to do with expert techniques carried out in a certain order. Or somebody showing off. Someone who thinks they are an amazing lover is a turn-off for me.

Serioussteve - what is squirting? Is it when you piss yourself during orgasm?

I have heard this term used and have no idea what it means. I have never met a women who "soaks the bed" when she orgasms