I have a question about the 69 position...

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Yesterday, I have decided to go out my comfort zone a bit where our sexual is concerned. I came up with the idea that a 69 would be a good idea. We haven't done one for years !! I was a bit tipsy as well which helps making me feel comfortable ! Now I hear you, where is she going with that !!!!

Dh asked me this morning if I was supposed to massage his bum crack at the same time of giving oral sex...and I said erm I think so ??? But now I'm not sure !!! So ?? Should I have left it alone ?

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If he doesn't like it then don't do it. There are no rules.

I'll have a ponder whilst I eat my toast and get back to you.

What?
Did you want to do that? There is no 'supposed' in anything sexual
Personally I can't bear a 69, it's like the worst of all worlds and you basically have his arse in your face. I can't concentrate on doing it or enjoying it. There are far more fun things to try.

You do what you both like and agree to. There are no rules other than that.

I didn't even know that there was a sex topic !!!

I'm kind of LOLing at the idea that there's a set of rules of what to do during oral sex (or any other position). Like a Do and Don't sign:

Do - open your mouth wide
Do - prop your head up on a pillow to support your neck
Don't - massage your partner's bum crack

Anyway, if he likes it, then you should do that. If he doesn't, then you shouldn't. Same goes for anything on your side.

I like 69 but always aim to be the one on top. Being on the bottom just means his nutsack ends up draped over your nose.

Omg tea bagging

Do it lying on your sides, not one one top and one underneath. One hand on shaft, other one free for ball cupping / bum fondling / whatever. I think (it's been a while )

I didn't know there was a set of rules to follow!
I would just go with what you like and what he likes.
If he likes it and you like it, then it's a great idea, if either of you don't like it, then don't do it.
It's pretty straight forward - you just need to talk to each other!

Obsidian - have you ever stopped to consider that during 69 when the woman has her blokes arse in her face...

Exactly the same thing is happening to the bloke, he's got her arse in his face.

Do blokes complain about this or grumble about it in a gender based way? No. They don't.

And OP, as said earlier, they are no rules, so relax and do what you want to do.

Do blokes complain about this or grumble about it in a gender based way? No. They don't

I don't know, I've never heard anyone complain, but men are just as likely to not like it as women, and therefore able to not do it. I'm not being sexist fgs, I don't want an arse in my face whoever it belongs to. Fact is a male arse is likelier to be hairier than a female but neither are very pleasant unless you like that sort of thing.

:)

In my (considerable) experience, 69ing is what inexperienced partners suggest and it's never much good.

Agreed. Have tried 69 many a few times but it's not the best for us.

How can you do a 69 with his arse in your face and he's giving you oral?

Oh ok are you lying on your back with him straddling you with his arse in the air?

I've only ever done me on top. Every day is a school day!

Crying laughing at this! But I'm glad there aren't really any rules to sex because I'm making things up as I go lately (aswel as getting a few tips on here....)!!

69 is my fave position

stupidly never thought about woman on top. But I don't like it either. I like to concentrate on one thing at a time