Can your partner feel you orgasm?

[Sexquestion2015]

My sex life has mostly been with my stbx for the last 10 years or so.
Every time after having sex he would ask if I orgasmed.
Therefore I assume he couldn't feel it.
It meant that on occasion I could fake it if I wanted to and he was none the wiser

Current partner can feel everything.
There is no chance of hiding it.
I have only not orgasmed once with him luckily!

I'd say yea. OH says it's like squeezing/tensing muscles

Yes he can.

Yeah he can.

Could it be the difference between the two partners was quality of orgasm? Maybe they are more intense now? Or maybe it's a size thing as current partner is a quite a bit larger, I wouldn't say stbx was tiny though!

Maybe it's both? He's larger, your orgasm is stronger, therefore he feels it?

I think if your partner is interested in making sure you orgasm then he will feel it, if he's more interested in getting his own pleasure then he won't feel it.

I'm pretty useless at faking but I have done it many times when I have been with people on the small side or who are pretty useless in bed but with long term partners it would be obvious as I usually squeeze the hell out of them and can be quite noisy .

So true! I think it would be so hard to fake the noises I make with current partner when I do!

I like to think the involentary noise(cause its so damn good) is the give away, rather than feeling anything. Also i would think its hard to fake it well enough unless the guy was clueless ....i hope!

I've often wondered wether the man can feel anything. I usually tell him ...