Am I masturbating too much

[bumpgoestheweasel]

Hi,

I'm a single woman, and ever since I broke it off with my ex. I have been masturbating daily once a week. Usually by having one to one cam sessions with women. I feel so guilty about doing this, is this wrong? Am I doing this too much?

Forgot to say, I have just discovered to masturbate myself.

Deeply hurt by whoever reported this thread. I am a regular user, just name changed.

Boo to the person who reported. it's a valid question. I think that as long as you're comfortable doing it that often (you might get a bit meh with it..) Then carry on....

Daily once a week? Which is it?

@bumpgoestheweasel

Deeply hurt by whoever reported this thread. I am a regular user, just name changed.

Please don't be hurt - we do ask people to report, and it was our error at deleting it quickly -
We have reinstated this now.
Kindest

Was your ex female? Or is an attraction to women newly discovered. If your own pleasure is something you've just discovered then well done you.

Daily, once a day every day. No my ex wasn't female, but I was abused and stuck in that relationship for so long.

I've always been attracted to women, just scared to take it further. Stupid as it sounds, I didn't know women masturbated, I thought it was a "male" thing. I met a woman online and she told me about it.... but why do I feel so guilty about masturbating?

Thanks Olivia I understand.

Can I ask: can you do it without the camera?

You should never feel guilty for masturbating and there is nothing wrong with enjoying your new found sexual pleasures.
You might want to just be careful if you are camming as it is difficult to protect your privacy.

i dont think you can do it too much, as long as your wet or using lube to avoid friction damage and maintaining a job, then do it as much as you want or need

maybe try meeting face to face for some physical contact as well though

If you enjoy it then there's no problem. There's no set amount of times you have to stick to. Don't feel guilty, plenty of women do it and it shouldn't matter if you do it once a day or once a year.

OP I went through this when I left my marriage. At one point I did get a bit obsessed and was spending too much money on toys and porn site subscriptions every month.

I also found I was watching a lot of queer porn or amateur lesbian porn (the mainstream so-called lesbian porn is laughably fake!) Although I have always had some attraction to women, I identify as mainly straight with a hint of gay I think at the time I was just so angry with my ex that it kind of spilled over to all men and I wanted to reclaim my sexuality without any men being involved, if that makes sense.

I would just say be careful with camming because if you're on screen then there's a potential for you to be recorded.

Absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation. However, I think you're being completely naive with the webcam. It WILL have been recorded.
Did you obscure your face/identity/identifying tattoos?

Yeah man you need to knock off the webcam thing or you'll end up being passed about all over the Internet.

Try without an audience and as much as you want is fine as long as it doesn't impact on your life.

Once a week?
If it takes over your life to the point you're masturbating in work loos, public loos, can't wait to get home to do it...THAT's too much.

What's being home educated got to do with anything..

Once a week is hardly an addiction.

I masturbate a similar amount and I'm not even single!

There's not really such thing as too much masturbation. Only if you can't function, are nipping into loos during work etc, and become highly negative without, is it a problem.