Sex/swingers clubs

[Meetmebythewillowtree]

Dh and I are interested in going to a sex club of some type. From a bit of reading online it seems what we want is a swinging club. I had always had horrible car keys in a bowl type associations with swinging but from what I see online it seems that there are nightclubs with loads of people having sex .....and that sounds good to us! I want to make sure we make the right choice of club though. Any recommendations for a swingers club in London? No fetishes or anything like that, just random strangers having sex!

Also I am bisexual, I presume that a club like this would allow me to have sex with women too, is this the case?

Have a look outside London.
I've read lots about The Vanilla Alternative in Beds

Some clubs will have specific bisexual nights.

Thanks for the replies! We can't go outside London for logistical reasons. No access to a car. My dh is totally straight, so a bi night would not work for him, or perhaps it would as long as he wasn't expected to interact with other men also. What do you think? What are the chances that both people in a couple are bisexual? Perhaps in many cases just one of them is. Does anyone have any experience of these clubs? If so what are they like? Any recommendations? Thanks

Why not try a swingers website? That may have a larger proportion of users who are in to swinging and who can give advice...

Try joining FabSwingers, it's free and they have reviews of clubs

My Wife & I could recommend Killing Kittens. Very much not keys in a bowl type thing.

we have talked about this but always chickened out, how are you getting on?

Swingers clubs are not usually full of sex. There tends to be a bar area with drinking and chatting and dancing, maybe a lounge area for sitting down versions of the same, "outdoor" smoking area which is the same but colder and foggier. And there's rooms of sweaty people humping, sometimes 1 to 1 and sometimes in a big heap, but there is no pressure to take part. Just don't be offended if somebody asks you if you want to do something kinky, just say "no thanks" and maybe "we're new here so just looking at the moment".

My friend tells me.

there's Abfabs, near Heathrow.

Leboudoir near Aldgate Station is fairly un-seedy, plus they vet photos before you can join/attend, so you get a fairly decent standard of punter. Most of the women there are at least bi-curious.

Have fun!