Who initiates sex more?

[Ellie88]

I find I do and it's frustrating, he is usually receptive and up for when it I do but If I don't make a move he'll leave it for weeks. It's not often he makes a move and I find Im feeling resentful. Just wondered if it's just me

Nope. Same here. I hinted last night & the night before & was met with 'I'm tired'. He initiates maybe a few times a month & It's always completely unromantic.

Same here Ellie. And now he's on ADs I can be turned down, tho even if I'm not it's not partic satisfying.

Finding it v frustrating too! !!

Not just me then! Yeah it's frustrating always being the instigator.

DH numerous times a day....it's like living with bloody teenager. We were teens when we met but 30 years on, it gets a bit wearing at times.

Usually dh.

In my last LTR I probably initiated more but it didn't bother me. It was probably about 75% me. I think he was a bit inhibited because he knew my history of surviving abuse and rape.

Prior to that, with my H it was probably 50/50.

Both of us but it feels like DH does it more because he has no subtlety and amuses me no end.

I do regularly say no but DH never does. He is always interested like he was when we met 7 years ago. I need a break and a bit of space sometimes - having 8 month old DS all day makes me feel as if I want my body to myself occasionally - face drooled on, ears bitten, hair pulled, fingers in my mouth , neck licked, clothes pulled - actually it sounds a bit like sex

Me and DP only see each other a few times a week. So we basically both know what we're meeting for. Roll on Friday.

I'm the same as you op, it makes me really upset to be honest. He is a really great partner and it is good when we do but your not on your own here

Mostly DH who is horny bastard even after 19 years. Me too though and I don't believe I've ever been turned down. I do love him and he is always complimenting me and very affectionate.