gagging during oral.

[DoTheDuckFace]

If you gag during oral sex does that mean you have been deep throating or can you gag during an ordinary blow job?

My ex always used to bang on about deep throat and how he wished I could do it. Unfortunately for him I have a small mouth and he has a big penis so it wasn't happening.
Since we split we have slept together a few times. Neither of us are seeing anyone else and we both have 'needs'. Anyway when I give him oral now he is much more enthusiastic about joining in to the point where I gag and my eyes water.
I don't mind , he will stop if I tap out and I like being dominated and feeling 'helpless' and naughty, it is a turn on for me. I just wondered if this is the deep throat he was always so keen to try?

[Redglitter]

when I deep throat my partner he doesn't force or push his cock in mouth. I'm in control There's only one position I can do it comfortably. If he started taking over and pushing then that'd be it

Gagging giving oral is very different to deep throating

[EhricLovesTheBhrothers]

Gagging during oral isn't 'deep throat'
'Deep throat' is a thing invented by the porn industry and was based on the story of a woman who had a clitoris in her throat hence why she 'enjoyed' deep throat. (Turns out the actress from the film was being raped and coerced while she made it. Fun!)
'Deep throat' is not a thing that most women will enjoy, but of course if you want to give it a go why not. Just be aware that your gag reflex will probably kick in and you may puke on his cock, sprout tears from your eyes, bust blood vessels and dribble all over the place. If that's an image you find sexy then wahay!

Actually I don't care how other people have sex as long as it's consensual. But I don't consider being persuaded to try something the woman won't enjoy at best, and will harm her at worst as being consensual. 'Face fucking' is a thing some women enjoy but many, many don't. It's ok to be one of the ones who don't and to say 'no way josé'

[CurlyhairedAssassin]

The thread title "gagging during oral" seems fairly innocuous. I have no problem with reading about oral sex whilst having my breakfast. What I and others are commenting on is the slightly disturbing attitude of the OP's sexual partner. Oral sex isn't "ewwww" in itself. If I thougt it was I wouldn't have clicked on the thread.