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Y11 2025-26 Results Day and Next Steps

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UncomfortableSilence · 21/08/2026 09:01

We can use this thread to continue our discussions for now.

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NotDarkGothicMama · 11/09/2026 17:01

He genuinely didn't believe me that university isn't like that any more, so I dragged him to the open day to see for himself. He's spent the day muttering about declining standards, absurd outfits and so on and so forth. Now he doesn't believe me that every university is like this. I did say that if he wants to wear a suit every day, no one is going to stop him.

Next stops: Imperial and Warwick, where I'm sure he'll be similarly horrified. I've gently suggested a degree apprenticeship in a corporate workspace where suits are normal.

Monr0e · 11/09/2026 18:02

duckfordinner · 10/09/2026 08:27

AQA drama external written part went five marks up. DC was predicted 7 but got 5. Its 6 now after the remark. For a context , all other GCSEs subjects are 8/9 and he is actually good at acting/ devising drama (went to Sylvia Young Saturday classes and performed on stage in the past ). All his cohort at school got lower than expected drama grades.

@duckfordinner That's great news for your DC, how long did it take from requesting it?

@Cluelessnewbe have you requested a remark?

We have requested DD's today so will wait to hear back.

Cluelessnewbe · 11/09/2026 18:24

Monr0e · 11/09/2026 18:02

@duckfordinner That's great news for your DC, how long did it take from requesting it?

@Cluelessnewbe have you requested a remark?

We have requested DD's today so will wait to hear back.

No, not yet. Have been trying to decide whether the risk of mark going down is worth it. Did your DC’s school or teacher give any recommendation before you went for the remark?

MoggetsCollar · 11/09/2026 20:30

NotDarkGothicMama · 11/09/2026 13:59

The deadline for remark applications here is the 22nd September. I'm not sure whether that's just the internal school deadline though.

I'm accompanying DS round the Cambridge college open day today. He can't believe that none of the students are wearing suits. I can't overstate how horrified he was by the idea of party nights in the college basement. It only got worse when our guide told us about college families and getting "college married". I've taken him to the library to recover before finding one of the older colleges for comparison.

I am actually married to my college dad 😂

Monr0e · 11/09/2026 21:04

Cluelessnewbe · 11/09/2026 18:24

No, not yet. Have been trying to decide whether the risk of mark going down is worth it. Did your DC’s school or teacher give any recommendation before you went for the remark?

Do you know how close she was to the next grade?

According to good ole chat gpt, my dd would have to lose around 25 marks on a remark so I feel reasonably confident that won't happen and the worst case is that she stays the same

ifonlytheydlisten · 11/09/2026 23:10

@makemineadecaf epq is very self directed. Our high school has kids doing it instead of a gsce. So might be only an hour class but needs lots self directed hours…

makemineadecaf · 12/09/2026 06:36

ifonlytheydlisten · 11/09/2026 23:10

@makemineadecaf epq is very self directed. Our high school has kids doing it instead of a gsce. So might be only an hour class but needs lots self directed hours…

Oh for sure I agree. Hence not wanting her to do 4 alevels.

She’s set on 2/4 to continue with but the third she’s completely torn.

NotDarkGothicMama · 12/09/2026 06:37

Married-married, rather than college married, @MoggetsCollar? That's very sweet, how lovely. I hope @OranginacanonlybedrunkinFrance's near-swoon had a similar happy ending.

XelaM · 12/09/2026 06:51

How many hours per week of lessons do your kids have per subject? Apparently, my daughter has 6 hours per subject per week, which seems more than I've previously read on here. Seems quite intense. She's also signed up to do a pre-vet course at her college (no idea what it entails) so that's additional lessons twice per week. Seems she won't have much free study time at all. She's also trying to do Russian A-level in a year 🤪 Maybe too much.

XelaM · 12/09/2026 06:51

Double post.

MoggetsCollar · 12/09/2026 07:18

NotDarkGothicMama · 12/09/2026 06:37

Married-married, rather than college married, @MoggetsCollar? That's very sweet, how lovely. I hope @OranginacanonlybedrunkinFrance's near-swoon had a similar happy ending.

Yes, married-married. 26 years and counting. He did the same subject as me and I used all his notes. Still paying 😂

Sadly (or not) DS isn't interested in Oxbridge so we can't send our child back to them.

ifonlytheydlisten · 12/09/2026 08:32

@XelaM 4-5 is the norm everywhere here and from all I’ve read

makemineadecaf · 12/09/2026 08:41

XelaM · 12/09/2026 06:51

How many hours per week of lessons do your kids have per subject? Apparently, my daughter has 6 hours per subject per week, which seems more than I've previously read on here. Seems quite intense. She's also signed up to do a pre-vet course at her college (no idea what it entails) so that's additional lessons twice per week. Seems she won't have much free study time at all. She's also trying to do Russian A-level in a year 🤪 Maybe too much.

7 x 45 min lessons here so 5.25 hours a week per subject. I think anything between 4-6 seems typical.

waitingquietly · 12/09/2026 09:25

Mine seems to have 4 hours a week per subject and 8 hours of supervised study . Doing 4 subjects but must drop one in October . He’s only been back 2 days but has already changed his mind about which one he will drop !
Two games afternoon sessions too which for him has always been a life saver to decompress .

whereonthestair · 12/09/2026 09:52

Mine has 4x65 minutes per subject, plus a 65 min EPQ session, a 65 min futures/career session and a 65 minute compulsory do something enriching. Need not be sport but could be. Yesterday he had one session at 9 and one at 3 so left to go for a swim!

Tebheag · 12/09/2026 10:33

DD has 4.5hrs a week per subject. She cant do enrichments as clashes with FM. Not heard anything about EPQs
They have been told they need an A in first assessment to continue with FM.

Stowickthevast · 12/09/2026 11:42

Mine has 5 hours per week per subject. Hour long lessons but also have a 45 minute morning break and 1hour 15 for lunch so the day doesn't finish until 4.30 if you have a final lesson.

Anyone's DD have a bag that isn't a backpack? Apparently DD is one of the few that has a backpack so is now campaigning for a handbag but not really sure what to get her. It seems a bit mad not to have something with more support but I've been told I know nothing about teen fashion!

postitnot · 12/09/2026 12:00

Shoulder bags are definitely the thing, a fake longchamp did OK for DD, but she also has a plain black one now bought for £5 off a friend!

makemineadecaf · 12/09/2026 12:10

Dd has a longchamp. It’s basically essential uniform at her school!

Stowickthevast · 12/09/2026 12:16

I did suggest a Longchamp but she wasn't keen. I like the fact that they're very light and quite durable, have an ancient myself but maybe she thinks they're old fashioned as I have one!

Tebheag · 12/09/2026 13:06

DD still using rucksack got lots to carry !

UncomfortableSilence · 12/09/2026 13:35

DD has 4.5 hours a week per subject, 1 hour of games and 1 hour of compulsory RE. She’s absolutely loving it so far, they have an exam in Maths next week which they have to score 60% or above to stay on the course apparently. She has got a lot of homework so straight back into it.

We put her paper 2 lit in for review as there was an agreement that it looked like pages hadn’t been read so we shall see.

We treated DD to a Longchamp after results day and I ordered an organiser for inside to structure it a bit which works well. Most girls seem to have similar.

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applecrumblespider · 12/09/2026 14:03

A level choices now settled. DD decided to drop physics and stick with chemistry - except for the problem with 1 of the teachers. So yesterday when she asked to drop physics she asked if she could be moved to a different chemistry class. They asked the reason but it was no issue apparently and she's very happy. She feels bad for the rest of the class stuck with him.

Also doing EPQ and I think they have to do an enrichment activity but don't think that's been sorted yet. She says the school are still expecting them to do 'creativity, action, service' which was part of the IB programme.

She says there has been lots of movement this week, and a lot are dropping maths. One of her friends has ended up being the only kid taking music.

She's had a cheap shoulder bag for a few years, no requests for a longchamp though! Just spent £60 on the chemistry and biology workbooks the school recommend.

Monr0e · 12/09/2026 15:35

DD picked a satchel type bag on vinted. She was quite happy with that thankfully, along with some new pens and a couple of pukka pads. She's definitely not always so low maintenance!

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