Ahh I was looking for a thread like this - I’m hopping in!
Also hoping for a better, more settled Y10 after a rough ride, socially. Sorry to hear quite a few others had the same experience.
Our focus this year will need to be organisation and application. DD is very bright but a bit lazy, unorganised and so far unchallenged. She gets great results but has no idea how and doesn’t know how to apply herself/study as it’s not been needed yet. I’m terrified that she has all this potential but could very well crash out with the stress when it all gets harder this year.
Last year she felt a little bit of challenge in two subjects, so ditched those immediately when options came round saying that she “knows” she’s totally failing them. She got 100% in those end of term exams and predicted 9s! 🤦♀️ But she struggles to actually revise, and therefore has no proper understanding of where she’s at with the knowledge, meaning low confidence.
She was diagnosed with ADHD at the end of summer term. I’m glad she doesn’t feel the need to mask anymore and is understanding how her mind works, but it’s really hard getting her to set up systems in advance that will serve her. I’m just talking folders set up with dividers and the subject notes for the subjects already started, and a whiteboard etc. I just know everything will be fine in a panic on the very last day before going back!