Apologies for the very long post
but I feel very passionately about PPS and the need for more schools to be ‘modernised’ in a similar way.
My youngest daughter is in year 10 at PPS after starting mid-way through year 9 . She arrived at PPS very shaken after a dreadful time at a totally unsupportive private school in Esher.
She started very well at her old school , then lockdown came again.. When school was re-opened she was bullied and then ostracised by peers. The school said they ‘could not get involved’. At the same time her elder sister was struggling with her recent diagnosis of Asperger’s.
My youngest felt her world had collapsed both in school and outside. What she needed was understanding, support and a safe environment. She did not get this. Her anxiety was through the roof .When things got tough for her it felt like the school really just couldn’t be bothered. She went from a bubbly, chatty girl to someone who looked crushed and anxious.Then school avoidance started. The pastoral care offered was extremely poor, the support was negligible…….apart from one very overworked and lovely mental health lady at the school who ‘got it’.The final straw was her hiding in a toilet as she had forgotten homework as she was so scared of the telling a teacher. Staff searched for her , when she was found, she was shouted at.
This was the straw that broke the camels back. We wondered what if we had a school where all the staff ‘got it’ ? We wanted the ethos was to be based on the child’s well being, not solely their academic results. We did not feel there was any value in forcing our daughter into the Esher school where she was utterly miserable and made to feel like a burden.
We were recommended PPS hybrid school by a very good friend who had a similarly bad experience at another school with their daughter. We are so grateful they suggested PPS to us.
PPS hybrid school has been transformative. It is a school that is totally inclusive,
where there is patience, care, understanding and empathy , not just for the children but also for the parents ! The communication between staff and parents is fantastic . Every child is embraced and given the time and space to develop and grow. Individuality and Neuro-diversity is understood , celebrated and supported. Anxiety is not treated as an unresolvable problem. The children emulate and reflect this ethos in their compassion to each other. PPS Hybrid allowed her to re-build, re-gain self-esteeem and strength.
PPS feels like a modern school for a new era. The world has changed and our schools need to change also. How many of us enjoy a few quiet days working from home, not wearing a suit? So many schools are lagging behind the new world our children find themselves in. The ‘sausage factory approach ‘ just does not work anymore for so many of our kids, yet so many schools still feel ‘victorian’ in their outlook.
Experience and education comes in so many ways.Many hybrid kids have the time to be incredibly creative and are incredibly artistic , musical or mini tech whizzes!
Most schools are about conformity and then they kids are released into the world and then asked to ‘think outside the box’ or be a ‘disrupter! I think an ‘alternative’ school gives the children the opportunity to see that achievement can be attained by different routes.
Many of these kids will go onto work in a hybrid environment or even log onto their jobs from another country. They do a lot of their socialising online, mixed with seeing family, old friends and through local clubs. Every single friendship does not have to be through school. Would you socialise with no one but your work colleagues?
At hybrid school they learn to motivate themselves and mange their work independently, an excellent lesson for their futures. (I do not get involved in her work while she is at home or while she is being taught online, she does this all herself.) Hybrid now offer 2 days a week which as been brilliant and has cemented her wish to go full time. Many of her peers happily choose to stay hybrid but our little one is ready to stretch her wings..
We could not be more pleased.