Does your dc go to a catholic primary school?
If not, and your children was admitted, and they take only catholic children (you said no none catholic’s had been admitted). If the school has mass like our school does- How would your dc feel when they are having mass and all taking communion for example except for them? All know when to sit, stand etc during mass? Are they aware of all the catholic mass’ that take place throughout the year and why? And so on. All the children will have been brought up with this from primary school and attending church.
The reason I ask is not to be picky, but a friend managed to get her dc into my sons cathlic secondary school- I’ve had so many phone calls asking ‘why do they do xyz’, and her daughter found it really difficult that other children ‘automatically knew things- saints, prayers, different events important in the Christian calendar etc, and she felt like things were not explained because everyone else was brought up with it and knew the answers.
My Friend said although it’s the best school in the area, she wished she had put her in a catholic primary school now or had sent her to a non cathlic high school. As she feels that she’s spent too much time worrying about things related to faith, because she doesn’t know what to do during mass, she didn’t know all the different prayers in assembly, and also struggled with hymns as some example. All of which is minor, but to a child, I guess she felt ‘different’ to everyone else. (Personally I think it doesn’t make much difference and kids soon get the hang of it, which is my argument to her, but she sees things very differently, so I’m just giving a view of a non catholic parent).
As an example she was asked to say a certain prayer in their Year assembly, and came home crying, because she did not know the prayer. Something so simple, but caused lots of tears and being sent home ‘sick’. She should have just told her teacher, but she was to worried to admit she didn’t know it.