DP filled out the census

[MrsWobbleTheWaitressIsTired]

I am raging! He filled it out last week. Without me being there.

Am I bonkers to be fucking raging? It feels like a massive over step.

He was shocked at my reaction. Has anyone else had this? Am I the only one who feels so fucked off?

I don’t understand what the problem is tbh. They’re all just factual questions that you’d know about your partner. I filled our household’s out without discussing it with DH. He filled in his mums and grans ones.

I asked for input from dd and ds as to whether they felt scottish or British or a bit of both.

The rage seems a bit OTT. My OH filled it in; having been together for 20+ years there's nothing to be answered that's contentious.

I trust him to complete it and complete it properly - is this what the actual issue is?

Hmm…. Can maybe see why u might be a bit put out if u wanted to see it but not raging. My DH filled it out for us and tbh I was just pleased It was done and out the road. I’ve enough to do !!

I'd be really fucked off

My DP was over the moon I filled it out for him. There wasn’t anything in there that we felt wasn’t blatantly obvious especially given we are married and honest with one another around sexuality and gender. Are you hiding something from your DP? I would have been quite worried if my husband was raging.

Are you hiding something from your DP? I would have been quite worried if my husband was raging.

Raging maybe not but definitely annoyed as some of questions are quite subjective, eg language quesrion and national identity. As a matter of courtesy DP should have asked before taking it on themself to fill it in for someone else.

Surely your partner would know your language and identity details though. Especially if you don't have any non uk links.