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A place for stay at home mums and dads to discuss life as a full-time parent.

Would I be considered a flasher?

14 replies

Maximum71 · 05/10/2021 17:00

Wfh as usual today which generally means a morning of wandering around in my dressing gown and sitting at my computer til I can be bothered to get dressed. Decided to oil my kitchen worktop in the meantime as I’m not busy (work wise). I’m standing in front of the worktop oiling away and looking out of the window at the same time when I feel my dressing gown coming loose. I pull on the wrong cord to tighten it and my boobs are suddenly on full show. If anyone would have been passing they would have been quite surprised.. would they have taken offense I wonder.. or averted their eyes in shock ? Or pointed and laughed?

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ReadtheFT · 05/10/2021 17:16

Thats weird, dont you wear anything under your dressing gown??

Maximum71 · 05/10/2021 17:18

@ReadtheFT no I sleep naked.. I just put my dressing gown on over my naked self in the morning .. shocker right? Wink

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ILoveYouMoreTheEnd · 05/10/2021 17:21

Unless you were right up at the window I doubt anyone would have noticed lol.

AFuturisticalSound · 05/10/2021 17:23

I don't understand why you think you would be classed as a flasher but I would absolutely hate hate having my kitchen at the front of the house.
How do you manage that without having net curtains or blinds? Do you have to have a permanently tidy kitchen for the benefit of passers by?

The only people who ever see into my kitchen is the window cleaners and I don't even like that, they always seem to come around 8am when the kitchen is at peak untidyness Grin

BruceAndNosh · 05/10/2021 17:25

Cover up, dear.

NatashaRf · 05/10/2021 17:25

@ReadtheFT

Thats weird, dont you wear anything under your dressing gown??
How funny that that's your reply here.

Part of the point of a dressing gown is for naked sleepers to be covered when not in bed. DH and I are often naked apart from our dressing gowns.

Finfintytint · 05/10/2021 17:27

I inadvertently flashed at some overnight rail workers in the summer. I too sleep naked in the summer and was having a ciggie in the early hours outside. Didn’t realise there was overnight works on the platform that overlooks my garden. I sat there with my dressing gown open to cool down on a very hot night until I saw torches and heard voices! I scurried inside sharpish, hoping they didn’t clock too much Grin

tedsletterofthelaw · 05/10/2021 17:29

No because it was an accident.

Flashers do it on purpose because they get off on it.

HaveANiceFuckingDay · 05/10/2021 17:33

Flashers do it for sexual gratification or control
Sounds like yours was accidental in your own home . Had a neighbour been watching and you started playing with your tits knowing this it might be different

CandyLeBonBon · 05/10/2021 17:34

Not sure anyone is that fussed tbh

Maximum71 · 05/10/2021 19:04

@AFuturisticalSound
The kitchen looks out on a lower level private road. And we've just finished building so I still haven't got curtains up in the kitchen yet. Bloody wish it was tidy all the time. I suppose it's tidier cos I walk around naked (well with a dressing gown ;) cleaning and clearing up instead of getting dressed 😂

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Maximum71 · 05/10/2021 19:07

@HaveANiceFuckingDay
I'll try tweaking my nips next time and see if anyone complains 😂

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whereiwanttobe · 05/10/2021 20:09

@AFuturisticalSound totally missing the point of the thread, but I love having the kitchen at the front of the house. I watch the world go by while washing up or peeling veg (and I'm very nosy), and our sitting room is at the back so we're not overlooked at all, and it's really peaceful. I do have a blind for when it gets dark outside but mostly during the day I don't care.

But I don't think I've ever flashed the neighbours either, intentionally or not!

Hawkins001 · 09/10/2021 11:59

usually depending on the brightness outside, and if your in a room thats not well lighted, most of the time there is a reflection of the sky ect on the window that usually prevents any see though, although this is not always 100% of the time and depends on the viewing angle of the window.

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