Hi my husband works from home too.
I have a 19 week baby.
First few months there was no routine ( each baby is different ) he didn’t really sleep
Much to be honest ... ( don’t worry my friends baby slept 8 hours from day one and frequent day naps )
Now we have a routine I usually get up 10:30pm 1am and 5 am for feeds ( taking roughly 45 mins to 1 hour depending )
Then sleep until roughly 6:30-
8-am ( I am at the mercy of my son)
We get up and play / I will put him in his
Baby gym while I grab tea and toast ... then feed him for 9am
He will be tired around 9:30-10am and nap
For 1-2 hours
I put away dry laundry get out clothes from
Machine I would have put on earlier ( he has reflux so we wash a lot ) hoover / empty washing machine / prep dinner if we are out in the afternoon
Then when he is up
We go to nanny and grandads ( I have my parents and my grandparents and partners parents and everyone wants to see him for 3-4 hours so that’s 3 days done )
Come home play and dinner ( nap i. There somewhere )
Great thing about family is they are free / they will feed you and if you are bottle feeding / expressed they will feed and burp
The baby ( well my parents not my
Grandparents ) which gives you a rest.
1 day a week we go to play group /weigh in
1-2 days a week are for us ... online food order comes ... will cook slow cook options like casserole / stew and I will do other jobs like changing beds mowing lawn seeeping etc and napping with baby
Leaves weekends for family time and more often than not time with husbands family as his mum wants to see her offspring g as well as grandson
But I have to flex he may be ill having a bad day and then jobs go out the window and I have learnt that’s ok too x