I have been signed off sick with acute stress for the last 12 months following a very traumatic change of life circumstances (sudden illness of DH, resulting in his permanent brain damage).
I initially intended to return to work when things had settled down into whatever my “new normal” looked like, but owing to continued mental and physical health issues (mainly pre-existing, but considerably worsened by what has happened), I’ve realised that I no longer have the capacity to work, and have started the process for ill health retirement.
i’m in my early 50s, a few years below the age which I can claim my work pensions “normally”. I have a pension with my current employer, and a legacy one from my previous employment, both public sector, so I have to apply for both separately.
My current employer is being supportive in me taking this route; I have been assured that there is no risk of me being dismissed on grounds of capability while the ill health retirement process runs its course. My GP is also aware, and supportive. I am currently under hospital investigation regarding some of my exacerbated physical health issues, but there won’t yet be a lot of supporting medical evidence available from that source as it’s fairly early days down that route and I’m sat on waiting lists etc.
Whaf I’m looking for is support on the wording I put in my ill health retirement applications. I started the form for my legacy pension yesterday, and when I came to filling in the big blank space on my reasons for retirement, I got in a bit of a panic. I’ve obviously made a good start - I’ve got plenty to say - but I’m aware that this could have a major impact on the process running smoothly and in my favour!
So basically, any advice from those who have gone through the process (from either side) is welcome - do I have to really think about what I put, or is a simply summary ok at this stage, because it will be followed up with more detailed occupational health assessments etc later on?
Thankyou ever so, wise and experienced Mumsnetters!